Spanish guy trying to get a Polish girl...

WarLord

Aug 31, 06, 22:15 #1

Whats good peeps. I have a question for ya'll.

Hi. I'm a spanish guy, and I'm tryna get at this polish girl. We like eachother, and all that good stuff. But her cousin has told me that her parents prefer polish guys to get with them. So idk what to do. Like imagine if i ever meet them and they act like assholes Lol, cuz i know me and her are gonna have something serious going on. So what would be the best thing to do? should i just be her friend? or get with her? But I can't be her friend cuz i like her so much and she does too. So idk im freaking confused. I dont want her family to be looking at me all weird and shit if yall know what i mean, cuz i dont like being under a racist athmosphere while socializing with people. Any advice or feedback would be apreciated.

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krysiaThreads: 26 Posts: 3,604 Joined: Aug 10, 06 ♀	Sep 1, 06, 00:29 #2
Quoting: WarLord, Post #1 dont like being under a racist athmosphere maybe this isn't the best place for you? If you guys tryna be together and love each other, then who cares what others are saying and tryna do. Go for it, man. Life is too short. Tryna to let others tell you what to do. it's your life not theirs.

WarLord

Sep 1, 06, 01:12 #3

maybe this isn't the best place for you?

What do you mean by that? like around her fam? Well I mean, I know there gonna be a bit racist or w/e or probably they wont show it, but it wouldnt bother me at all, Cuz all I care about is her. Yeah, I said I wouldnt like being under a racist athmosphere Cuz family is important to me, and that would probably be future family? Thanks for your advice tho Krysia, it helped me a lot.

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Sep 1, 06, 01:47 #4

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Quoting: WarLord, Post #3

maybe this isn't the best place for you?

I meant this forum, Warlord. As a joke. Don't take it personally.

I have some Mexican friends, Tony and Elizabeth, 4 children. Very nice people.
My friends in California adopted two children from Mexico.
It's not where you're from, but who you are.
But you have to understand, that the older generation is not used to this. You will have to convince them that you love their daughter and that she will be happy with you.
Because they worry.

mr.ski	Sep 2, 06, 02:16 #5
hey, warlord who gives a flying f@@## what her parents think/if you like her go for it,like kyrisa said if you show her love affection thats all that counts, Yadadameeeeeeennnnnn......

polacaThreads: 1 Posts: 80 Joined: Sep 4, 06 ♀	Sep 4, 06, 16:42 #6
warlord I think her parents should meet u and see that u realy love their daughter. U know...in poland spanish men havent good opinion....for parents. For polish people spanish man is a nice, good-looking guy who change girlfriends VERY often. Maybe thats the problem.

WarLord	Sep 8, 06, 15:01 #7
Thanks for your advice Polaca. Yeah I know what your saying about changin girlfriends etc..But I'm taking this girl serious, maybe even marrie her in the future. ..

WroclawThreads: 77 Posts: 7,404 Joined: Apr 1, 06 ♂ [Moderator]	Sep 8, 06, 15:30 #8
Warlord, Your age, background and willingness to meet her parents might help. If they meet you and like you then things will be easier. Her mum and dad will be thinking of her education and a secure future. It's up to you to show that you really care.

WarLord	Sep 8, 06, 19:17 #9
Yeah, true. I mean I do care a lot about her like a lot man shes everything to me etc. But how can I show her parents that I care about her if I ever meet them? Although the only obstacle that I see right now Is her parents. I hope they like me cuz Im spanish.

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Edited by: opts Sep 8, 06, 21:47 #10

Quoting: WarLord, Post #9

I mean I do care a lot about her like a lot man shes everything to me etc. But how can I show her parents that I care about her if I ever meet them? Although the only obstacle that I see right now Is her parents. I hope they like me cuz Im spanish.

Ok WarLord.

This is what you do. Because you are Spanish, and you want your girlfriend’s Polish parents to like you.

1. Buy your girlfriend an engagement ring, spend at least $2000, so her parents will know that you have money, and Poles like round figures.
2. Set a wedding date.
3. Buy your future mother-in-law a bouquet of roses.
4. Buy your future father-in-law nice horse, Polish men like horses.
5. Put on your best 3-piece suit.
6. Arrive at your girlfriend’s parent’s house on the horse, dressed in a nice suit, with the engagement ring and the bouquet of roses, face your girlfriend’s parents and announce your intentions to them.
7. Good luck. : P

May the force be with you.

Tlum	Sep 8, 06, 21:53 #11
Quoting: opts, Post #10 1. Buy your girlfriend an engagement ring, spend at least $2000, so her parents will know that you have money, and Poles like round figures. Lol. I would add: 1a. Buy an engagement ring, but spend $300 .

krysiaThreads: 26 Posts: 3,604 Joined: Aug 10, 06 ♀	Sep 8, 06, 21:58 #12
Quoting: opts, Post #10 Arrive at your girlfriend’s parent’s house on the horse But make sure it's a fast horse when her parents start chasing you with a frying pan!

optsThreads: 12 Posts: 333 Joined: Jul 29, 06 ♂	Sep 8, 06, 21:58 #13
lol

WarLord	Sep 9, 06, 00:43 #14
Lmfaoo. Ya'll funny. I whon't have to do all that. Thats prety dumb.(no ofense) Ill find a way to handle the situation.

optsThreads: 12 Posts: 333 Joined: Jul 29, 06 ♂	Edited by: opts Sep 9, 06, 06:59 #15
Quoting: WarLord, Post #14 Lmfaoo. Ya'll funny. I whon't have to do all that. Thats prety dumb.(no ofense) Ill find a way to handle the situation I am not offended. That’s the Polish way.

mr.ski	Sep 9, 06, 10:45 #16
opts, i guess youre ok.

zikusThreads: 3 Posts: 3 Joined: Feb 10, 10 ♂	Feb 22, 10, 21:37 #17
he cant buy ring with 3OoO because spain has big economic problem now zapatero dont have 3000 heheheheheh

OgienThreads: 15 Posts: 420 Joined: Jul 22, 09 ♂	Feb 24, 10, 03:33 #18
WarLord, do you mean you're Latin? Ethnic Spanish people are white people from Spain... If you're not white, please stay away from white girls.

matteroftaste	Feb 24, 10, 03:39 #19
WarLord: Spanish guy trying to get a Polish girl... I just wonder what's wrong with Spanish girls?

slaxmmy

Oct 4, 10, 11:32 #20

my ex girlfriend was french and italian... i'm Salvadorian and like 5'5 (5'4.5 in reality) ... I never met her parents, she lived an hour away and I didn't feel like taking the trip..

we lasted like 4 months and what not

at the end of the day, doubt it matters what you/your partner are, whether the same or diff..

just gotta show your charm, the fact that you're the **** and are irreplacable, and above all else.. gotta show them that no matter what, their daughter is the world to you

holla at me, I could be the next carrie bradshaw... seriously.

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