Your Thoughts about 20 Year Age Difference Between Men & Women in Poland???

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Edited by: NomadatNet Jan 6, 11, 23:06 #61

A J:

Everybody happy, right?

Copying & pasting this picture posted in the other thread here

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Everybody happy here?
Guy is probably feeling heavy, fat, health problem.
Gal is probably counting the hours she has to pass with him.
Who else? Ha, there is photographer who took this picture. Guess, he is her pimp who is counting money who will take from his gf. Is he too happy?

If you saying everybodys happy in this picture, then, I have nothing else to say. Keep this economy system then. And, keep visa to your happy countries. (stay away from me. I have teeth behind my lips.)

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Edited by: A J Jan 7, 11, 12:19 #62

NomadatNet:

Everybody happy here?

Very likely. (But I guess you can't fathom that much.)

NomadatNet:

Guy is probably feeling heavy, fat, health problem.

One of my close friends is also a heavy fellow. He seems happy enough though, and he's a forklift driver at a small factory. (Also has a slim, shorter and nice looking girlfriend.) I know they're happy too, so why shouldn't this couple be?

NomadatNet:

Gal is probably counting the hours she has to pass with him.

Really? Can you read her mind now? What if this guy is extremely sweet and knows how to please her? What if she sees something in him that you don't see? Huh? Ever thought about that? You sound like someone who believes that it's only the money that counts. I wonder who the Capitalist is here? (Not me!)

NomadatNet:

Ha, there is photographer who took this picture. Guess, he is her pimp who is counting money who will take from his gf.

For all you know it's her mom or her girlfriend who took that picture. Did you see these two people kissing by the way? (Who says they're a couple?)

NomadatNet:

Is he too happy?

Maybe you should ask her? Did you even read what JustysiaS posted about her friend and her younger husband? I'm willing to bet they're happy with eachother. Oh, and what about Ashton Kutcher and Demi Moore? (Think about it!) They're both filthy rich, so they can't have picked eachother for the money..

NomadatNet:

(stay away from me. I have teeth behind my lips.)

Hey, I'm just replying to your questions buddy, so you know what to do if what I say bothers you. You can start a thread about our whole society and system in another thread if you like, because this one is about age differences in relationships. (Not about pimps, crime, abuse and economics or whatever you wish to bring into this.)

BikerjenkoThreads: 3 Posts: 18 Joined: Nov 9, 10 ♂	Jan 8, 11, 00:09 #63
I am 59 and did not believe the a woman 12 years younger would be interested in me, but we are very much in love and I plan to move to Poland in the near future. P.S. I am not wealthy.

NomadatNetThreads: 6 Posts: 1,492 Joined: Mar 28, 09 ♂	Jan 8, 11, 00:19 #64
It is the health, true wealth.

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Mar 24, 11, 13:20 #65

Well then I got one for you all.

I am 42 year old black man and my girlfriend now for 2 years is 23 (19year difference) and yes she is Polish. And the funnest thing for me was that her family and friends had a much easier time accepting me being older then me being black. Her mom was happy that she was with an older man that would make sure her little girl was safe and even the father accepts me with the age differences. And so far we are still very much in love, and yes every once in a while I notice that she miss maybe living that young life and I try to allow her to enjoy that age. In the end all I can do is be understanding and not expect her to have the life understanding that I have. So in the end, love can bridge the gaps that comes with both age and racial difficulties.

20042005	Apr 5, 11, 06:16 #66
Well in my case I have 3 kids from my first partner. I'm 22 had first child at 16, my current partner is 46, any one think it can work out??? He say he loves me n wanna have kids with me but I'm scared that later on my regret it! Plz give me an advise really need one :(

SoftsongThreads: 6 Posts: 588 Joined: Sep 2, 07 ♀	Apr 5, 11, 10:10 #67
Anyone who needs to get great advice about age gap relationships can find a very helpful forum called Ageless Love. At one time, I was in an age gap relationship and it was a fantastic source of information. They have great archives with just about every concern. Stories of success and failures and community support. Here is the link: http://www.agelesslove.com/boards/index.php

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Edited by: A J Apr 5, 11, 11:11 #68

20042005:

I'm 22 had first child at 16, my current partner is 46, any one think it can work out???

I don't believe such age differences should be a problem when you're dating or looking for something more casual, and I really don't think age differences of about ten years should cause much problems in more serious or long-term relationships either. But twenty four years? It's pretty obvious that you'll still be in the middle of your life when you're about thirty six. He'll be sixty then. I think you should seriously ask yourself if that's what you *really* want.

20042005:

He say he loves me n wanna have kids with me but I'm scared that later on my regret it! Plz give me an advise really need one :(

I don't see many men raise teenagers in their early sixties, do you? I mean, if you're going to have a child with him this or next year, or even later, then that child will be fourteen when he's sixty one, sixty two or sixty three. (And he talks about more kids?) He shouldn't be too selfish and think about *your* future as well, because you already *have* three kids of your own. Hey, it's not *my* life, but I wouldn't go along with this plan if I were you. I guess it would be different if he accepted the fact that you already have three children of your own, but then again who am I to tell you what will or won't work out for you guys? Just saying that a bigger age difference in a relationship is one thing, but when kids are involved you *should* give it more thought.

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Apr 26, 11, 11:14 #69

i am a 48 yr old woman ill be 49 this yr i have raised three kids as a single woman for the past 31 yrs my youngest 19 and my middle child is 25. i recently got involved in a 22yr old young man that in all my 49yrs i have not had anyone that treats me like this young man.he is attentive to my every needs. he and i get along very well. he says all the things that any woman NEEDS TO HEAR. HE COOKS CLEANS AND HELPS WITH ANYTHING I NEED MOST OF THE TIME BEFORE I EVEN ASK.IN ALL MY YEARS OF RELATIONSHIPS WITH MEN MY AGE OR OLDER BECAUSE IVE DATED OLDER MEN [THINKING THAT THEY WOULD BE BETTER BECAUSE THEY ARE OLDER] I HAVE NEVER FOUND ONE THAT MAKES ME FEEL LIKE THIS YOUNG MAN DOES. SO WHATS THE PROBLEM TRY 26YRS. HE WANTS US TO MOVE FORWARD AND IM UNSURE I NEED HELP I FINALLY HAVE ALL THAT IVE DREAMED OF IN A MAN BUT I FIND MYSELF PUSHING AWAY.

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Apr 26, 11, 11:41 #70

antionette
Give it a go - what have you got to lose? Well, tell me exactly what. A man who treats you like a Queen and you hesitate? .... Well then, go back to your older men who treat you like dirt if that's what you want, because you seem to prefer that.
Even if you only have 5 years with him - they will be the happiest 5 years of your life - but then again....you don't want to be happy, now, DO YOU?

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Apr 26, 11, 11:43 #71

antionette:

HE WANTS US TO MOVE FORWARD AND IM UNSURE I NEED HELP I FINALLY HAVE ALL THAT IVE DREAMED OF IN A MAN BUT I FIND MYSELF PUSHING AWAY.

it is a fear of being ridiculed by other people I presume - it is definitely not one easy thing to overcome - like fighting oneself

btw I wouldn't pressurize a woman I love into anything - I guess if he shows patience and perseverance it's gonna be much easier for you in time

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Apr 26, 11, 12:28 #72

Fear of being ridiculed - aha, so now I understand perfectly ... I can only do or say the things other people approve of.
They will tell me who I can go out with, they will tell me how old he must be, they will tell me what I should do. O yeah...that's right. We must all listen to other people's opinions otherwise they will disapprove of us and laugh at us.
Yeah, right, that's the philosophy we must all adopt in life....

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Edited by: antionette Apr 29, 11, 08:31 #73

thank you terri for you straight and honest advise, it is so ironic that the young mans name happens to be TERRY is this a sign? ive been thinking of this situation long and hard and NO I DO NOT WANT TO BE TREATED LIKE DIRT THANK YOU, IM LOVING ALL THE LOVE AND AFFECTION THAT I AM PRESENTLY GETTING AND YOUR RIGHT LIFE IS TOO SHORT AND I WILL GO FOR IT.TOMMORROW IS NOT PROMISED TO THE YOUNG OR OLD AND THIS IS THE PERFECT TIME IN MY LIFE. KIDS ARE GROWN I AM ESTABLISHED IN LIFE AND THERE IS NO RESON FOR ME TO BE ALONE OR UNHAPPY. THANK YOU FOR YOUR POSITIVITY.PEOPLES OPINIONS DO NOT MATTER TO ME NEVER DID. I WAS ALWAYS TOLD THAT OPINONS ARE LIKE A** HOLES EVERYONE HAS ONE .

Mateusz_A TyThreads: - Posts: 13 Joined: Apr 30, 11 ♂	Apr 30, 11, 15:08 #74
Well she'll see you more as a father.. And still look at younger guys.

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