noreenb: She said to him sth like I like you, we feel great with each other, we are together because it's our free choice, because we attract each other, and so on. But, first of all, 1) we are free and 2). we have our common space. Why did he dissapoint her? There were common space and free space.
sounds more like friends to me, can't blame him for going elsewhere. it has nothing to do with his nationality, everybody's different and your *clever* psychology tricks are naive because you can't expect a person to act a certain way because you read about it in a book. you gotta give a man something to come back to, something he wants and needs. you didn't, so he found it somewhere else. everybody needs their own space in a relationship, you can't just fill your partner's every spare minute cos they will start resenting you for it, but it's good to have boundaries and know what you can do and what you can't. you, or shall i say your friend, never made it clear it was an exclusive relationship and by the sounds of it he was up for that, but he was pushed away to be free so now he is. end of story.
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