How to make a guy (Polish or other) happy?

A JThreads: 19 Posts: 4,639 Joined: May 21, 10 ♂	Aug 27, 10, 23:27 #31
pgtx: that's just a talk... reality fails men...lol Do I detect some kind of curiousity? pgtx: i can survive, don't worry about me... Tough cookie. (Literally!) ;P

JustysiaSThreads: 15 Posts: 2,869 Joined: Oct 14, 07 MEMBER ♀	Aug 27, 10, 23:27 #32
dtaylor5632: I'm sure with enough special sauce...ill stop there... trust you to make a comment like that! put your mayo away ;D

noreenbThreads: 4 Posts: 1,082 Joined: Apr 22, 09 ♀	Aug 27, 10, 23:28 #33
ShawnBM Cool, I like poetry, also W. Blake. Mike22 and i think it's stupid to spend 3 years of your life with somebody you meet rarely and you are like a stranger with I think it's rather a part of growing up which has to make you to feel like stupid. Everything was ok, after some time things started to spoil. It is rather psychological question if anybody wishes to answer would be great.

noreenbThreads: 4 Posts: 1,082 Joined: Apr 22, 09 ♀	Edited by: noreenb Aug 27, 10, 23:34 #34
Where are borders of freedom in relationships as you probobly noticed.

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Aug 27, 10, 23:36 #35

This is a second recent thread here where people expect psychological answers to their rather unoriginal problems. Go see a shrink then, a bunch of randoms on a forum isn't going to make it better. No matter what terms you use, psychological or not, things got f*cked up. If you can't accept at least a part of the blame for what happened then that is pretty selfish and immature. You can't treat your love interest like a lab rat. Love is not a psychological experiment.

noreenbThreads: 4 Posts: 1,082 Joined: Apr 22, 09 ♀	Edited by: noreenb Aug 27, 10, 23:38 #36
Every problem is unique especially when concerns important things. And I would rather not call somebody's concerns unoriginal.

JustysiaSThreads: 15 Posts: 2,869 Joined: Oct 14, 07 MEMBER ♀	Aug 27, 10, 23:41 #37
If you don't set boundaries and don't make it clear it's an exclusive relationship, don't expect him to come back to you everynight like a loyal puppy. There's the answer to your "psychological dilemma".

noreenbThreads: 4 Posts: 1,082 Joined: Apr 22, 09 ♀	Edited by: noreenb Aug 27, 10, 23:46 #38
JustysiaS If you don't set boundaries and don't make it clear it's an exclusive relationship, don't expect him to come back to you everynight like a loyal puppy Oh, so do guys expect setting boundaries to be happy in relationships? The end for today for me. Thanks for all answers. ;)

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Aug 27, 10, 23:53 #39

I guess some people can be happy in an open relationship. (It's all about loyalty in your mind.) If you can share everything in all honesty and you vieuw sex as a bodily pleasure and still value eachother's company in every other aspect I don't see why there should be any problems? (But maybe that's just me?) How many people cheat? About 60%? Why not simply be honest, and acknowledge what all of us already know. I wouldn't like to be with a girl who sleeps with a different guy every day, but I wouldn't mind to realize a few of her fantasies. I guess that's what I mean. (I will expand on this later.)

:)

Goodnight!

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Aug 27, 10, 23:57 #40

noreenb:

Oh, so do guys expect setting boundaries to be happy in relationships?

YES. don't put them on a leash, but let them know whats ok and what isn't. if you tell them to run along and be free they'll do just that. they are not very complicated lol they just need to know where they stand. it's not making you more desirable if you tell him he can do whatever he wants because it looks like you don't care! i tried this approach once and it failed me big time.

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Aug 27, 10, 23:57 #41

The problem with women is that they are extremely changeable.Even if you take all precautions and manage to predict everything you never know what is going to happen even a weather change can have devastating effects on a date.I thought my last Polka was reasonable till I saw the characteristic sparkle in the eyes and I was wondering what's wrong and where this craziness originates when she told me her period had come.So their eyes show their hormone levels,we Balkan warriors need to leave our swords sometimes.

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Aug 28, 10, 11:45 #42

JustysiaS:

YES. don't put them on a leash, but let them know whats ok and what isn't.

As if I would let a girl put me on a leash, I mean, come on!

;P

JustysiaS:

they are not very complicated lol they just need to know where they stand.

Just speak your mind. I think we can handle it, and if we can't, well, then you know everyone has been completely honest, and that it simply wasn't meant to be. (No harm done!)

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SeanusThreads: 22 Posts: 30,158 Joined: Dec 25, 07 ♂	Aug 28, 10, 15:06 #43
Tada, you disappear from this thread now :) Ta da, magic! What makes guys happy? It depends on the guy :)

AmathystThreads: 30 Posts: 3,968 Joined: Nov 10, 06 ♀	Edited by: Amathyst Aug 31, 10, 01:18 #44
Its interesting reading all the posts on here.. Everyone adding their 2p worth.. Every relationship is different...so there are no hard and fast rules...Just be happy and enjoy the moment and never try to change the person you're with...You were attracted to them and fell in love with them for a reason...this is what a LOT of people seem to forget and this is what ruins most relationships.

PennBoyThreads: 157 Posts: 3,443 Joined: Dec 7, 08 ♂	Aug 31, 10, 04:50 #45
noreenb: A friend I met while I was studying spent almost 3 years with her boyfriend. Yes that is a big issue with girls these days most girls wanna control a guy, the tables have turned. That's messing around with nature.

beckskiThreads: 19 Posts: 2,148 Joined: May 15, 07 MEMBER ♀	Aug 31, 10, 06:25 #46
noreenb: How to make a guy (Polish or other) happy? Serve him an intimate dinner for two in the raw. That may put a smile on his grumpy face ;) A sincere thanks PF, for putting up with me FIVE terrific years, muah!

trener zolwiaThreads: 5 Posts: 2,786 Joined: Jun 8, 10 ♂	Aug 31, 10, 06:27 #47
JustysiaS: You can't treat your love interest like a lab rat. Love is not a psychological experiment. Killer line here.

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Edited by: noreenb Aug 31, 10, 12:16 #48

I don't agree. Love can be a psychological experiment. Some people take part in it.
Being in a company of loved ones they have had the waves of their brains transcripted. Machines was showing how their brain had been working when they were feeling pleasure and extasy.
I saw this experiment a long time ago in a British programme called "Chemistry of love" of something like that.
They also had blood tests and got plenty money for it I guess.

aphrodisiacThreads: 22 Posts: 3,998 Joined: Apr 15, 09 ♀	Aug 31, 10, 12:36 #49
noreenb: Oh, so do guys expect setting boundaries to be happy in relationships? The end for today for me. Thanks for all answers. ; one needs boundaries in every relationship.

king polkakamonThreads: 1 Posts: 1,018 Joined: Dec 30, 09 ♂	Aug 31, 10, 15:24 #50
It is very easy to make a guy happy.Just use your hands for cooking and your mouth not for talking.

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Aug 31, 10, 17:19 #51

noreenb:

I don't agree. Love can be a psychological experiment. Some people take part in it.
Being in a company of loved ones they have had the waves of their brains transcripted. Machines was showing how their brain had been working when they were feeling pleasure and extasy.
I saw this experiment a long time ago in a British programme called "Chemistry of love" of something like that.
They also had blood tests and got plenty money for it I guess.

Sure, it can be, but should it be in day-today relations, I believe is the point of her quote.
Certainly one partner forever examining and analyzing the other other and the relationship can't help things. I've been there and it makes one feel confined and the perp overly critical... None of which is very conducive to a loving relationship. Rather b*ner-killing even...

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Aug 31, 10, 19:44 #52

noreenb:

I don't agree. Love can be a psychological experiment. Some people take part in it.
Being in a company of loved ones they have had the waves of their brains transcripted. Machines was showing how their brain had been working when they were feeling pleasure and extasy.
I saw this experiment a long time ago in a British programme called "Chemistry of love" of something like that.
They also had blood tests and got plenty money for it I guess.

you must be very young because you seem to rely on tv way too much. of course being around the one we love makes us act different, don't need to perform any experiments to prove it. now take your boyfriend, you tell him to run along free and careless because you think that he'll come back to hump your leg like a loved up mutt when he is away from you and realises he really loves you. A - bad experiment B - bad outcome. the guy simply got bored and lonely. i just think you have to be pretty dumb to let the one you love go the way you did, and then blame HIM. if you're in love you don't need to do any experiments (except from the good ones ;D) or make them prove the way they feel, that's just needy. get real and stop watching chick flicks.

noreenbThreads: 4 Posts: 1,082 Joined: Apr 22, 09 ♀	Aug 31, 10, 21:14 #53
get real and stop watching chick flicks. Your advices are really remarkable. many thanks

EurolaThreads: 6 Posts: 2,647 Joined: Dec 2, 06 ♀	Sep 1, 10, 03:14 #54
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trener zolwiaThreads: 5 Posts: 2,786 Joined: Jun 8, 10 ♂	Sep 1, 10, 04:06 #55
Eurola: surprise him Yeah. Surprise is good. Eurola: just ask him for a credit card and hit this website But it's hotter if we don't have to pay for it! :p

noreenbThreads: 4 Posts: 1,082 Joined: Apr 22, 09 ♀	Sep 5, 10, 23:17 #56
Trener zolwia Surprise is good. I think the great sentence would the best to finish this a bit silly thread.

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