How to show a polish Guy I like him

I don't know how i can be more clear, I have shown him affection, we went out a few times, but I feel that he does not feel the same that I do about him. He is a very sweet and wonderful guy, we have a connection, but we haven't officially said that we were an item. and i feel like i am pitting more effort towrds the "realtionship" there is another problem, I only see him once a wek becasue he lives very far away. I need some advice and I hope that you can help me.

but I just want to tell him that i have feelings for him, but i don't want to sound wired and desperate. or if there is a way that I could show him that I like him that would be a good thing. I have done a few things like made him cookies, bought him chocolates ect... i wonder of it is me or if he in not interested then I want to move on

so thanks for the help!!!!

Thanks for the posts!

Jesus, how many more "HOW TO SHOW A POLISH GUY I LIKE HIM" threads will there be? How many nameless and faceless trolls in the future?

How to show him you like him? Give him oral sex, that should do it!

hmmmm....


so do it... make cookies... :)

Just tell him. Maybe shouting could work.

give him a chance to show you his feelings.

What is the rush? Man like the chase, so a pair of rollerblades would do for now;)

than you for the advice......... :)

step on his foot that always works. ask him about his wife and kids back home in poland

lol

I know what you mean Filios1, I am also crap at giving advice about relationships.
Just leave them be.
Interesting the difference between the male and female responses so far ;)

Do you flirt with him?
Did you guys kiss?
Does he call you/text you a lot? How much?

Love yourself first girl then someone else, don't make him your life, you'll end you getting hurt, like him even alot but dont look like you can't live without him, that'll make him like you less, calm down just go with the flow, believe me you'll see it when he's serious about you. good luck

Don't be too eager. Guys hate needy chicks.

I guess I shoulda said, many guys dislike needy girls.

But some just wanna pork 'em and run!

Offer the kebab without any ketchup or white sauce ;)

I have the same problem. my advice just be honest see were that goes good luck.

be just the way you are...act like a normal human being...

Well I was honest he wasnt sure about a relationship so I just plain out told him that I liked him and for us to try it and so now we are going to have a try at it. just plain talking and being honest will work.

yes you're right, being honest is important in a relationship and also trust...

He just could not be into you. And he just doesn't want to see it, that is why he is ignoring your advances.

Or he could be clueless. Either way just tell him. Say I really like you. Or I think I'm falling for you. Be honest. If you don't know each other long. Don't do this. Just be natural and flirt. If you are good friends, then tell him how you feel. If he is a good guy and he likes you or doesn't, it is fine. Friendship is fine too.

show him some booty. he'll get that for sure. no interpreter is needed either. :D

Yeah, nothing like universal gestures to bridge cultural gaps ;)

Im in the same position!

I have a polish guy, although born in Australia, he is definately Polish through and through, but very nervous and shy around me and doesnt knwo what he wants....I am getting scared this is a posible Polish trait :s

perhaps your outlook is too much socialistic, Polish man likes free marketry and other nonsenses

[quote=Polishlover2009]
I have a polish guy, although born in Australia, he is definately Polish through and through

hows that work, is it like choosing your football team?

by showing him your commitment to the entire collective and a healthy socialisitic mindframe you will win over any comrade true! North Korea girls, well-versed in art of Juche and other noble principle, can demonstrate proficiency in twirling baton, marching with straight back and maintain cheerful smile which showes duty to working peoples, and marksmanship. consider these attributes of personal character and you will be suceess.

This is all terrible advice.

I told you earlier girl just shout at him! This is a sign of affection in most modern relationships :)

Just tell 'ski that you'd like to take him out to dinner. (he'll bite, pun intended).
Ply him with slightly too much wine and be your friendly self. Later, tell him you had a wonderful evening.

Anyway, that does it for me.

Good luck let us know how it went.

Just do the same thing as you would with anyone else. Flirtation first, if that doesn't work then be more direct. My ex tried flirting with me and it didn't work and she had to literally invite me to join her in bed one night before i realised she was interested.

lol...no comments....

Yeah, i'm not so good with women. I am not good with subtle hints.