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Mar 14, 09, 01:58 #1

I don't know how i can be more clear, I have shown him affection, we went out a few times, but I feel that he does not feel the same that I do about him. He is a very sweet and wonderful guy, we have a connection, but we haven't officially said that we were an item. and i feel like i am pitting more effort towrds the "realtionship" there is another problem, I only see him once a wek becasue he lives very far away. I need some advice and I hope that you can help me.

but I just want to tell him that i have feelings for him, but i don't want to sound wired and desperate. or if there is a way that I could show him that I like him that would be a good thing. I have done a few things like made him cookies, bought him chocolates ect... i wonder of it is me or if he in not interested then I want to move on

so thanks for the help!!!!

Thanks for the posts!

Filios1Threads: 15 Posts: 1,953 Joined: Nov 13, 07 ♂	Mar 14, 09, 02:00 #2
Jesus, how many more "HOW TO SHOW A POLISH GUY I LIKE HIM" threads will there be? How many nameless and faceless trolls in the future? How to show him you like him? Give him oral sex, that should do it!

pgtxThreads: 49 Posts: 6,327 Joined: Feb 14, 09 MEMBER ♀	Mar 14, 09, 02:04 #3
mandy_8755: I feel that he does not feel the same that I do about him. hmmmm.... mandy_8755: I just want to tell him that i have feelings for him so do it... make cookies... :)

cjjcThreads: 37 Posts: 463 Joined: Jul 26, 08 ♂	Mar 14, 09, 02:05 #4
mandy_8755: mandy_8755 Just tell him. Maybe shouting could work.

miranda	Edited by: miranda Mar 14, 09, 02:07 #5
give him a chance to show you his feelings. What is the rush? Man like the chase, so a pair of rollerblades would do for now;)

mandy_8755Threads: 1 Posts: 2 Joined: Mar 10, 09 ♀	Mar 14, 09, 04:26 #6
than you for the advice......... :)

dcchrisThreads: 11 Posts: 687 Joined: Oct 29, 07 ♂	Mar 14, 09, 09:26 #7
step on his foot that always works. ask him about his wife and kids back home in poland

cjjcThreads: 37 Posts: 463 Joined: Jul 26, 08 ♂	Mar 14, 09, 11:34 #8
dcchris: ask him about his wife and kids back home in poland lol

SeanBMThreads: 41 Posts: 8,727 Joined: Mar 10, 08 ♂	Edited by: SeanBM Mar 14, 09, 11:37 #9
Filios1: Jesus, how many more I know what you mean Filios1, I am also crap at giving advice about relationships. Just leave them be. Interesting the difference between the male and female responses so far ;)

Wyspianska	Mar 14, 09, 11:39 #10
Do you flirt with him? Did you guys kiss? Does he call you/text you a lot? How much?

PennBoyThreads: 157 Posts: 3,443 Joined: Dec 7, 08 ♂	Mar 16, 09, 03:52 #11
mandy_8755: i wonder of it is me or if he in not interested then I want to move on Love yourself first girl then someone else, don't make him your life, you'll end you getting hurt, like him even alot but dont look like you can't live without him, that'll make him like you less, calm down just go with the flow, believe me you'll see it when he's serious about you. good luck

RandalThreads: 1 Posts: 758 Joined: Feb 14, 09 ♂	Mar 16, 09, 03:59 #12
Don't be too eager. Guys hate needy chicks.

RandalThreads: 1 Posts: 758 Joined: Feb 14, 09 ♂	Mar 16, 09, 05:09 #13
I guess I shoulda said, many guys dislike needy girls. But some just wanna pork 'em and run!

SeanusThreads: 22 Posts: 30,158 Joined: Dec 25, 07 ♂	Mar 16, 09, 11:09 #14
Offer the kebab without any ketchup or white sauce ;)

LAGirlThreads: 13 Posts: 598 Joined: Apr 11, 08 ♀	Mar 17, 09, 01:50 #15
I have the same problem. my advice just be honest see were that goes good luck.

connieyThreads: - Posts: 12 Joined: Mar 17, 09 ♀	Mar 17, 09, 12:03 #16
be just the way you are...act like a normal human being...

LAGirlThreads: 13 Posts: 598 Joined: Apr 11, 08 ♀	Mar 22, 09, 00:12 #17
Well I was honest he wasnt sure about a relationship so I just plain out told him that I liked him and for us to try it and so now we are going to have a try at it. just plain talking and being honest will work.

connieyThreads: - Posts: 12 Joined: Mar 17, 09 ♀	Mar 22, 09, 13:24 #18
yes you're right, being honest is important in a relationship and also trust...

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Mar 22, 09, 23:06 #19

He just could not be into you. And he just doesn't want to see it, that is why he is ignoring your advances.

Or he could be clueless. Either way just tell him. Say I really like you. Or I think I'm falling for you. Be honest. If you don't know each other long. Don't do this. Just be natural and flirt. If you are good friends, then tell him how you feel. If he is a good guy and he likes you or doesn't, it is fine. Friendship is fine too.

plk123Threads: 30 Posts: 6,412 Joined: Aug 29, 07 ♂	Mar 22, 09, 23:18 #20
show him some booty. he'll get that for sure. no interpreter is needed either. :D

SeanusThreads: 22 Posts: 30,158 Joined: Dec 25, 07 ♂	Mar 22, 09, 23:29 #21
Yeah, nothing like universal gestures to bridge cultural gaps ;)

Polishlover2009Threads: 3 Posts: 10 Joined: Mar 23, 09 ♀	Mar 23, 09, 05:54 #22
Im in the same position! I have a polish guy, although born in Australia, he is definately Polish through and through, but very nervous and shy around me and doesnt knwo what he wants....I am getting scared this is a posible Polish trait :s

JucheThreads: 13 Posts: 356 Joined: Feb 17, 09 ♂	Mar 23, 09, 10:40 #23
mandy_8755: I don't know how i can be more clear, I have shown him affection, we went out a few times, but I feel that he does not feel the same that I do about him. perhaps your outlook is too much socialistic, Polish man likes free marketry and other nonsenses

time meansThreads: 9 Posts: 2,306 Joined: Apr 21, 08 ♂	Mar 23, 09, 16:30 #24
[quote=Polishlover2009] I have a polish guy, although born in Australia, he is definately Polish through and through hows that work, is it like choosing your football team?

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Mar 23, 09, 16:41 #25

mandy_8755:

if there is a way that I could show him that I like him

by showing him your commitment to the entire collective and a healthy socialisitic mindframe you will win over any comrade true! North Korea girls, well-versed in art of Juche and other noble principle, can demonstrate proficiency in twirling baton, marching with straight back and maintain cheerful smile which showes duty to working peoples, and marksmanship. consider these attributes of personal character and you will be suceess.

cjjcThreads: 37 Posts: 463 Joined: Jul 26, 08 ♂	Mar 23, 09, 16:48 #26
This is all terrible advice. I told you earlier girl just shout at him! This is a sign of affection in most modern relationships :)

ZIMMYThreads: 10 Posts: 2,353 Joined: Feb 21, 09 ♂	Mar 23, 09, 17:09 #27
Just tell 'ski that you'd like to take him out to dinner. (he'll bite, pun intended). Ply him with slightly too much wine and be your friendly self. Later, tell him you had a wonderful evening. Anyway, that does it for me.

LAGirlThreads: 13 Posts: 598 Joined: Apr 11, 08 ♀	Mar 24, 09, 02:26 #28
Good luck let us know how it went.

Cardno85Threads: 33 Posts: 858 Joined: Jul 11, 08 MEMBER ♂	Mar 24, 09, 02:28 #29
Just do the same thing as you would with anyone else. Flirtation first, if that doesn't work then be more direct. My ex tried flirting with me and it didn't work and she had to literally invite me to join her in bed one night before i realised she was interested.

pgtxThreads: 49 Posts: 6,327 Joined: Feb 14, 09 MEMBER ♀	Mar 24, 09, 02:30 #30
Cardno85: she had to literally invite me to join her in bed one night before i realised she was interested. lol...no comments....

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