How to show a polish Guy I like him

Cardno85Threads: 33 Posts: 858 Joined: Jul 11, 08 MEMBER ♂	Mar 24, 09, 02:32 #31
Yeah, i'm not so good with women. I am not good with subtle hints.

RandalThreads: 1 Posts: 758 Joined: Feb 14, 09 ♂	Mar 24, 09, 02:58 #32
They should say what they mean!

CastaneaThreads: - Posts: 87 Joined: Mar 22, 09 ♂	Mar 25, 09, 02:43 #33
Just tell him.

RandalThreads: 1 Posts: 758 Joined: Feb 14, 09 ♂	Mar 25, 09, 03:06 #34
Cardno85: i'm not so good with women You're a good look lad, Cardo. I would think the girls would be throwing themselves at you! And you look sexy in that dress. :)

SokratesThreads: 19 Posts: 4,464 Joined: Jan 19, 09 ♂ [Suspended]	Mar 25, 09, 14:23 #35
Cardno85: Just do the same thing as you would with anyone else. Flirtation first, if that doesn't work then be more direct. My ex tried flirting with me and it didn't work and she had to literally invite me to join her in bed one night before i realised she was interested. Wow... Just wow. I would not neccesarily admit it in the future though.

PeepopsThreads: 3 Posts: 52 Joined: Mar 25, 09 ♂	Apr 3, 09, 00:46 #36
You should go see that movie "Hes just not that into you" I think its still playin. Of course by now hes probably done playin you. :)

petite88Threads: - Posts: 12 Joined: Apr 24, 10 ♀	Apr 29, 10, 12:17 #37
Filios1: How to show him you like him? Give him oral sex, that should do it! oh dear... is that so? what if i give him more than that? (just kidding)

ZIMMYThreads: 10 Posts: 2,353 Joined: Feb 21, 09 ♂	Apr 29, 10, 21:55 #38
How to show a polish Guy I like him When you go out try buying him dinner for a change. You'll feel "empowered" and "independent"! He'll object at first (male guilt) but insist and tell him he can buy dinner next time.

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Edited by: Havok Apr 29, 10, 22:39 #39

Guys like sex, food, entertainment and most of us are very competitive… and this is what you got to work with. very basic. If you think there is more you're wasting your valuable time.

We talk to girls mostly when we're horny and hoping to get some.

Just find out what he likes to do for fun and do it with him, he's going to get horny at one point... I'm pretty sure he'll start talking to you a lot more.

Don't give him cookies right away...

overall hot girls have it easy, others have to use their brains.

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May 1, 10, 17:38 #40

The best way to endear yourself to a man is to 'be yourself'. Don't play the many games, usually involving testing a man that so many women play. If your inner self is loving, caring, and thoughtful, then let it shine thru your mannerisms.

Try to be upbeat and positive. I cannot tell you how often a conversation with a woman
goes negative because the woman has to either complain about something or share her life with you in some ****** manner. As a woman, you know what I'm talking about.

If you're a feminist then share the expenses; don't be a hypocrite. If you are a traditional woman, then let those virtues shine. Don't bash men which so many so-called modern women do today; in fact, it seems to be the norm.

Look for the good in life. ... and give as much as you get.

Good luck.

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May 3, 10, 18:10 #41

ZIMMY:

The best way to endear yourself to a man is to 'be yourself'. Don't play the many games, usually involving testing a man that so many women play. If your inner self is loving, caring, and thoughtful, then let it shine thru your mannerisms.

Try to be upbeat and positive. I cannot tell you how often a conversation with a woman
goes negative because the woman has to either complain about something or share her life with you in some ****** manner. As a woman, you know what I'm talking about.

Nice advice :) yet, if a woman continue to show care, thoughfulness, and "love" to a guy, will that make the guy feel something for the woman, eventually? or it will just be another lost case? :)

SokratesThreads: 19 Posts: 4,464 Joined: Jan 19, 09 ♂ [Suspended]	May 3, 10, 18:33 #42
mandy_8755: How to show a polish Guy I like him Flash your tits.

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May 3, 10, 19:46 #43

he is polish, and a guy

That means he is like a guy only double it

so don't show him you are even the slightest bit interested in him

if you start being nice to him, or, God forbid, say you love him, then he will lose respect for you ... unless, that is, he hasn't had sex with you yet, and/or you are very rich.

ok, ok, i know that is only certain (Polish) guys. but seriously. don't be so daft - if he is being cool, don't do the girl thing and think that means he's shy and/or waiting for the green light. no. he is Polish, after all. if he wants to jump you, he will, no doubt about that.

so be as cool as you can and don't think he needs to hear about your feelings. he doesn't. not until he is truly in love with you.

(jeez but i am jaundiced, non?!)

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May 3, 10, 19:59 #44

nymph888:

f a woman continue to show care, thoughfulness, and "love" to a guy, will that make the guy feel something for the woman, eventually? or it will just be another lost case? :)

Depends on the guy in question. If a woman is a genuinely nice and honest person (then) this positive quality will show, actually, shine thru. A deserving man will reciprocate. If he doesn't then move on.

natasia:

he is polish, and a guy

Okay, so far so good.

natasia:

don't show him you are even the slightest bit interested in him

Here we go with that disgusting female habit of gamesmanship. When I see a woman that is so phony I drop her. This is terrible advice.

natasia:

f you start being nice to him, or, God forbid, say you love him, then he will lose respect for you

Women who play your games don't deserve respect because they don't give it.

natasia:

i am jaundiced, non?

Well, some honesty at last.

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Edited by: nymph888 May 3, 10, 20:02 #45

natasia:

if you start being nice to him, or, God forbid, say you love him, then he will lose respect for you ... unless, that is, he hasn't had sex with you yet, and/or you are very rich.

hmm... this is informative :) any more thoughts?
So, does that mean, to show a polish guy i like him... i'll just sit back and relax? And wait for the next eclipse to come? :)
haa...

ZIMMY:

Depends on the guy in question. If a woman is a genuinely nice and honest person (then) this positive quality will show, actually, shine thru. A deserving man will reciprocate. If he doesn't then move on.

This, I agree... a deserving man will reciprocate. If he doesn't, then move on.... nicely said. Something to remember by, especially when he doesn't reciprocate yah :)

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Edited by: skysoulmate May 4, 10, 00:26 #46

nymph888:

hmm... this is informative :) any more thoughts?
So, does that mean, to show a polish guy i like him... i'll just sit back and relax? And wait for the next eclipse to come? :)

Nymp - how would you like for a guy to show that he's interested in you? What would make you feel special and attractive yet not uncomfortable? Just curious...

PS. I just saw your reply on the other thread and will reply when I'm near a computer (using iPhone now).

HavokThreads: 14 Posts: 1,508 Joined: Mar 12, 10 MEMBER ♂	May 4, 10, 02:37 #47
nymph888: and "love" to a guy, will that make the guy feel something for the woman, eventually Lets face it. People are attracted to each other at first because of the physical appearance. All that touchy-feely stuff comes later. That's the "true" glue of a long term relationship though. Find out what that guy is really about and maybe you decide it's not worth it after all.

nymph888Threads: 3 Posts: 43 Joined: Mar 5, 10 ♀	May 4, 10, 11:20 #48
skysoulmate: Nymp - how would you like for a guy to show that he's interested in you? What would make you feel special and attractive yet not uncomfortable? Just curious... hmm.. Different guys have different styles. I'm okay with someone's unique ways of expressing interests so long as it doesn't result to hurtful encounters  I shall respond accordingly...;)

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Edited by: hague1cmaeron May 4, 10, 11:26 #49

mandy_8755:

but I just want to tell him that i have feelings for him, but i don't want to sound wired and desperate.

Show some initiative, most girls assume that guys should take the Lead. Times have changed, so just be straight with him, and tell him how you feel and see what his reaction is, perhaps he feels that you are in a position of strength and feel inhibited.

natasia:

natasia

disregard the advice from the person mentioned.

Remember don't apologize for your feelings because you are only apologizing for the truth-as Benjamin Disraeli said.

southernThreads: 116 Posts: 10,959 Joined: May 17, 07 ♂	May 4, 10, 12:02 #50
Tell him that you hate Russians.

LAGirlThreads: 13 Posts: 598 Joined: Apr 11, 08 ♀	May 4, 10, 18:55 #51
Hahaha thats a good idea because most do and I dont blame them.

wiktusz	May 4, 10, 22:09 #52
Seriously. The majority of this advice is useless. Polish guys, like difficult girls. The ones who are easy end up crying. Common knowledge here people.

pgtxThreads: 49 Posts: 6,327 Joined: Feb 14, 09 MEMBER ♀	May 4, 10, 22:16 #53
wiktusz: Seriously. The majority of this advice is useless. Polish guys, like difficult girls. The ones who are easy end up crying. Common knowledge here people. yeah dudes! seriously! you suck! lol ;)

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