How to survive a relationship in Poland?

Distance works for me.

How one makes one's sub-relatives worthy to sit at the feet of your partner's super-intelligent, kind and better family? How make the things work when your part of the deal is to be a doormat and keep your mouth always shut? How to be yourself with the chain at your neck ending at your partner's ankle, partner whom you love? What Poles or others do?

How to survive a relationship in Poland?

Did you try to talk to your partner and explain, how you feel?

Did you try to talk to your partner and explain, how you feel?

never get it started to begin with? ;-)

seems to be the obvious option.

It is tough. If some men had vaginas and could bear a kid, I wouldn't even think twice, but, unfortunately this is not the case :(

If some men had vaginas and could bear a kid, I wouldn't even think twice

If men could have babies, there would be zero percent population growth. Just ask Zimmy...

she's not the one and only Nathan.

If men could have babies, there would be zero percent population growth. Just ask Zimmy...

If men could have babies, there would be zero percent population growth. Just ask Zimmy...

Nathan, you mention "doormat" far too much sweetie, try and be more assertive and avoid women who are over-controlling - find a nice chilled out lady who has a similar outlook who has a mind of her own and doesnt look to her family for advice for everything she does....

Do some women search to assure themselves while feeling inadequate and failing to do it anywhere else, make their "success" especially pronounced at home?

Do some women search to assure themselves while feeling inadequate and failing to do it anywhere else, make their "success" especially pronounced at home?

, I would like to ask you, ladies: is it predominantly hormonal, psychological, environmental? Do some women search to assure themselves while feeling inadequate and failing to do it anywhere else, make their "success" especially pronounced at home? Does child-bearing justify women's pseudo-weakness which is often used in completely unrelated issues to the disadvantage of men? Yes, there is a child-birth pain - that's why men invented epidural. But is this pain so bad to blackmail the whole world constantly, before and after?

is it predominantly hormonal, psychological, environmental? Do some women search to assure themselves while feeling inadequate and failing to do it anywhere else, make their "success" especially pronounced at home?

Yes, there is a child-birth pain - that's why men invented epidural

Does child-bearing justify women's pseudo-weakness which is often used in completely unrelated issues to the disadvantage of men?

Im chilled as hell

You mean, why are they bugging their husbands to help out with the kids and housework?
I honestly have no idea what are you fighting for on this thread.

too bad you aren't a fly on the wall in my house. There are no inadequacies with me nor my two girls.

Im chilled as hell

why preservation of marriages often turn out to be a fight between being oneself and doormat, not a dialogue of 2 people, compromise?

Nathan:
why preservation of marriages often turn out to be a fight between being oneself and doormat, not a dialogue of 2 people, compromise?

If it is not possible to compromise, the relationship will end sooner or later. It does not matter what you do (doormat or not).

You mean, why are they bugging their husbands to help out with the kids and housework?
I honestly have no idea what are you fighting for on this thread.

too bad you aren't a fly on the wall in my house. There are no inadequacies with me nor my two girls.

Im chilled as hell... no demands no stress nice equal partnership

Thank you for inventing the epidural :)

Great, an injection that turns you a piece of numb meat and fecks your back up for the next twenty years...thanks guys..:)))

The propaganda of skinny dystrophics as a symbol of a beautiful woman made the epidural indispensible. Kids used to fall out like apples in the Middle Ages, now we need 6 people to pull out a single treasure.

So, why take it??? (the epidural)

I don't fight. I just posted a few questions which I am trying to solve:
1.) mother-in-law---daughter/son-in-law conflicts - why is there a female bias?
2.) why female's family is always better?
3.) why preservation of marriages often turn out to be a fight between being oneself and doormat, not a dialogue of 2 people, compromise?

1.) mother-in-law---daughter/son-in-law conflicts - why is there a female bias?

2.) why female's family is always better (IQly, spiritually, whateverly)?

3.) why preservation of marriages often turn out to be a fight between being oneself and doormat, not a dialogue of 2 people, achieving a compromise?

That's so rare and precious. My respect and best wishes :)

Kids used to fall out like apples in the Middle Ages, now we need 6 people to pull out a single treasure.

The stereotype is that mothers have hard time letting go of their sons.

If some men had vaginas and could bear a kid, I wouldn't even think twice, but, unfortunately this is not the case :(

her hairy ball-sack being kneaded up and down your abs..?

once you’re in a missionary

Many fathers have hard time letting go of their daughters.

because it certainly aint

How one makes one's sub-relatives worthy to sit at the feet of your partner's super-intelligent, kind and better family? How make the things work when your part of the deal is to be a doormat and keep your mouth always shut? How to be yourself with the chain at your neck ending at your partner's ankle, partner whom you love? What Poles or others do?

Do women talk to doormats? Usually they like them, need them to wipe off their feet, but not hear. Oh, no. Man's every word is the word of his mother, because only his partner can have a valid opinion and his opinion could not possibly come from his brain - no way - it's always the in-law's idea.
Are there ever problems with male in-laws on either side? Nope. Only where there are two women: older and younger and both stupid, which is usually the case, which makes the life of the two families miserable.