Can Turkish men and Polish girls be happy together?

I have read some posts of Turkish guys. Just wanted to write a couple of things.



This is because in Turkey, if a female is as open minded as a Russian girl, people start to insult her. You guys are the ones who insult females if they are open minded and call them all those rude words. And so many other things to make them like that. As a result, they become "difficult" (boring, because you guys want girls who are more open minded) girls. Well, this is your own mistake. If you guys want open minded girls, you will stop limiting Turkish girls.

Since childhood, turkish girls have been hearing that "western men are not real men, turkish men are the real" men, etc. Turkish men brainwash them. And if a Turkish girl prefers a foreigner guy, most of the Turkish guys find it as a "loss". Because Turkish men can date any female but Turkish girls are reserved for only Turkish men. Even the ones who says Turkish girls are not beautiful doesn't like the idea of Turkish girl&foreigner guy date... Trust me :).

For beauty, well, it is up to the guy. Turkey has so much different girls. I think Turkish men are not good looking in general and I have never prefered a Turkish guy. I like tall European guys. And so many Turkish girls don't find Turkish men good looking too. But most of them still stick with Turkish guys because they have learned that Turkish girls are for Turkish boys.

I just find it so funny that they blame Turkish girls to be close-minded when the reason of it is themselves... Anyways, day by day things started to be better in Turkey. Turkish girls get better education and travel around. They started to see that things are different than they have learned. They have started to open their eyes. I see Turkish girls who don't feel that she is reserved for Turkish guys and they date/marry foreigner guys. So in the future, you will be able to see more couples like turkish girls&foreigner guys. Because Turkish girls will learn that no matter how bad a Turkish guy is, she should stick with him is totally wrong and the world has much more better options. Actually, it does not matter where he is from, the love matters... But what I was talking about were something different. All countries have good and bad guys. But for Turkish girls, even the bad and ugly Turkish guys were ok, rather than dating a foreigner guy. Because the society liked it that way :).

SkidRow,

You stereotype Turkish guys. This is wrong. Personally, I think a turkish guy or girl can date with a foreigner, this is normal.

In this thread you can see a lot of European poster who is against the turkish guy polish girl date. That means in every country there are some people who are against multi-cultural relations.

On the other hand, you say that Turkish guys are not good looking and you like tall Europeans. I am sure the percentage of good looking guys will not change that much comparing Turkey and Europe. On the other hand, if being tall or good looking is the only criteria of dating according to you, I am sorry but you are very shallow.

Rock

I knew you are a Turk.

I am a Turkish girl and I talk about the majority. I know what happens. I have been witnessing to so many things. Turkish way of being against to it is completely different.

This is how I think... You did not say to other guys that the percentage of good looking girls will not change that much comparing Turkey and Europe. You respected their taste and kept silent but you needed to say that to me :).

No, I am not shallow. You couldn't get my post well. I said the love matters. And for appearence, I told so. So different things.

So interesting that when Turkish guys say "turkish girls are ugly" and I want a Polish gf, you don't need to say you are shallow... Hmm :).

Read this part again.

"Actually, it does not matter where he is from, the love matters... But what I was talking about were something different. All countries have good and bad guys. But for Turkish girls, even the bad and ugly Turkish guys were ok, rather than dating a foreigner guy. Because the society liked it that way :)."

I ignore that kind of stupid comments. You know quite well that who makes this comment is an uneducated low profile guy.

Turkish girls are beautiful, some of them are very beautiful :)

The main problem is making sex with a Turkish girl before marriage is more difficult than European girls. But this is a cultural issue and a big problem both for Turkish girls and guys.

I prefer Turkish girls as we can understand each other more than a foreigner.

I don't like to use stereotypes but I have a Kurdish friend (I met her in a internship in Poland), and I ask her a lot of questions I have about turkey, so i will enumerate some of this questions...

- Is it ok for a girl going out and have fun? Where I live yes... if a girl is on the street after (let it say 10pm) she is immediately a slut and probably will be insult on the street.

- And use a sexy dress for going out? I don't think its need to answer that after the previous answer...

- But are you going out after that time? Yes, I don't care if someone will call me a slut, so some times yes I'm going...

- What is your family opinion about your coming to Poland? They are strongly against my decision, but since I'm already independent I came anyway!

- Can you teach me some bad words in Turkish? She refuse even after I beg her, because she said every bad word she knows in Turkish is somehow related with women!

So, I'm not saying it's like that all over Turkey, I believe that Istanbul (for example) is more "european" city and people are more open minded and not behaving like that so often, but for what she said, it's clearly how the women are treated there, and saying this is not making a stereotype is just pointing some facts.

For some reason European Union keep rejecting Turkey to join the organization... I'm sure that one of the main reasons it's the way the women are treated there! So in fact I think it's kind of funny when some Turkish guy complain that Turkish women are not so open minded like some other (polish, russian, doesn't matter...) I'm guessing who is responsible for that...

About the topic question is not stupid or difficult, in fact is really easy... I know ONE couple of Turkish and Polish that is going pretty well and happy, so YES it's possible! If you ask its most likely... maybe the answer will be different!

One thing I would like to add... Me and my girlfriend we have different nationalities, not so much different cultures, since Portugal and Poland are not so different. Anyway, if someone ask me it's harder to have a relation with a person from different nationality. I will say, you can bet without any doubt yes... speaking and arguing in some other language that is not your native, no matter how good you are, it's not the same. Different values and different ways of seeing some things also happen quite often, between many other things related with this difference! But then, ask me it's worthy all the trouble? If you love the person and she/he makes you happy, I don't have any doubt in saying yes, of course.

The same I imagine happen for different culture/religion, maybe just more though, but I believe, in the end, at least sometimes will worth this extra troubles! But also I know "normal" relationship is already so hard to keep, even more this kind of relation with all this extra "problems"... All this things should be weight!

And how does the average Turkish guy react if his sister is as open minded as Russian or Polish girls?
I love the hypocrisy.

Great post!

Unfortunately you are right about this.
If a Polish guy would not allow a Turkish guy to date his sister, he would be called 'racist', but sadly enough Turks get away with it.

I'm sure that many Turkish sex tourists laugh how stupid most European men are; opening their borders so thousands of Turkish men can try their luck with European women and in return European men get nothing except maybe access to a handful of ugly moustached women from poor areas in Turkey whose family is desparrate for money.

All thanks to the multicultural relgion devotees in my native country's capital who brainwash millions of EU citizens that immigration is good and opposing immigration is "racism".

*yawn*

Fornication (unlawful sexual relationship) is forbidden in islam and Turkey is an islamic country.
if open-minded means she is open about fornication, do you think this is a good thing for morality.
don't abet the turkish girls to commit this sin and just look for a open-minded! polish girlfriend.

Fornication is forbidden in Christianity as well and Poland is one of the most religious Christian country of Europe.

I think that Turks aren't for every woman, as they sometimes frighten them with how they behave.
Just like not every Polish guy is right for a Turkish girl, but religion plays a factor in most cases.

I just find it strange how they would travel outside their country just to find some European girl.
Would English be the common language ?