Virtual Relationship of an Asian girl with a Polish man

wildroverThreads: 180 Posts: 8,188 Joined: Jun 7, 07 ♂	Nov 24, 09, 16:49 #31
Nothing wrong with virtual realtionships , they have as much chance of success as any other way of meeting people... Of course , the meeting face to face is the real test , but there is no harm in getting to know each other over the net , as long as both parties are truthfull it should work out ok...

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Nov 29, 09, 12:40 #32

Hi Phi, I am engaged with a Polish man but he lives in the US. We met on a dating website since the day I met him on the net we started taking everyday for five hours and then after four months he decided to meet me here in the Phil. we spend together for almost three weeks. A week before he goes back to US we got engaged. We talked everyday on the net or he calls me on my mobile. And he always makes sure that everything is fine with me, he is very supportive and undesratnding even on my ups and down. He supports me emotionally. Then after five months he came back for a visit for four months we stayed together visit my family. I can say that I found the man who really care and love me deeply in his heart. he is my bestfriend, my mentor and my partner. He is planning to visit me again this coming xmas if not this summer.

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Jan 18, 10, 00:06 #33

well, phi
i hope u guys really work out
im havin a relationship exactly like yours now ;) except that we're in our 7th months nd hes hopefully comin in summer

u ask if hes a player or if u can rly make sure he loves u. well, honestly, u cant.
but, in da same way u fear of dat, u know for sure u cant let all this go for nuthin. think of it like...u're neva wastin ur time with him. if u get ur heart broken then u know hes the one who made u smile once. that should be enough for u to know u can move on. [seriously though, he betta not break ur heart. :P ]
but, as much as u consider him perfect nd everythin, be careful NOT to give him everythin.
cuz u still havent met ion real.
just be you, the girl he loves nd who does her best for her bf. in da same way, be sure that men dunt like to be followed or takin care of as much as girls. su dunt question him bout his calls or why he got 5 mins late. just ask for him to have fun nd be considerate of his "quality time" with his friends. encourage to go out nd dunt cage him.
it works pretty fine when u understand how free they "need" to be nd how "attached" they would be if u do that.
he would be back to u tellin u how much fun he had like a baby talkin to his mom XD
to make it more surprising to you, my polish bf nd i met on a drawin site cuz we both enjoyed it. nd in 3 months he quit drinkin nd smokin weed. [i have access to his emails nd accounts nd talk to his perverted friends XD they tell me bout him...even the ones who dont like him talks how much he changed for me..we even send stuff by post to make it more physical...]

so dunt lose ur hope phi, but dunt bet all u have on it too

gd luck ;)

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Jan 23, 10, 07:28 #34

Hi guys,

Im anewbie here and got in this thread......

I have the same story about you Phi and we're talking about 6 months until now. He sent some gifts and always calls on my mobile and he's coming next month.He also tell me everything happens i his life there, if he's out of town, go there, do this, do that. Well, I cant say that we are on a relationship coz he never say any "magic words". I dont want to pressume coz the last time I did that, I just got hurt. Im just thinking that he's just being friendly.Also the thing, was he had an asian ex-gf and they had a bad ending, well I odnt the real story and I think its non-of-my-business is that.
Hoping I could get some advice here.

ExiledThreads: 5 Posts: 729 Joined: Jan 17, 10 ♂	Jan 23, 10, 10:13 #35
Phi: Virtual Relationship of an Asian Yes,Asians are fans of strictly virtual relationships for reasons easy to understand.

McCoyThreads: 46 Posts: 1,756 Joined: Jul 3, 08 ♂	Edited by: McCoy Jan 23, 10, 10:19 #36
Phi: I'm an asian girl who dates a polish man.. be careful, he could be only interested in getting an indonesian passport.

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Feb 6, 10, 01:35 #37

I really don't know how to tell you.

My mother was telling me that her father didn't like living in Poland. My mother was telling me that her mother didn't want to leave Poland. They both were born in Krakow, Poland. They did fall in love and got married in Poland. After grandparents had 1st child, he went to live in America. When their child was 1 year old, grandmother and my uncle moved to U.S. for while and my grandparents had 5 more children born in U.S.. They all went back to Poland and settled for while and they had 4 more born in Poland. My grandfather got tired of living in Poland and moved back to America till his death. See my grandparents lived apart. My mother didn't like idea how they lived. Well, my mom went back to America and married my father and stayed together for 40 years till my dad passed away.

Before you married, make sure if you really want to move out from your city to another city for good. If you don't, don't get marry.

wildroverThreads: 180 Posts: 8,188 Joined: Jun 7, 07 ♂	Feb 9, 10, 17:46 #38
ChezaRose91: of dat, u know for sure u cant let all this go for nuthin. think of it like...u're neva wastin ur time with him. if u get ur heart broken then u know hes the one who made u smile once. that should be enough for u to know u can move on. [seriously though, he betta not break ur heart. :P For anyone trying to learn English....this is not English...!

adamlycettThreads: 1 Posts: 13 Joined: Oct 8, 11 ♂	Oct 9, 11, 08:08 #39
Some polish guys like polish women are very deluded its virtual it means nothing more he will meet a nice polish girl and bin you off, or vice a versa

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Oct 9, 11, 11:55 #40

Hey Phi,

I suggest you, not to expect much in long distance relationship, be cool. I'm on the same boat :) My GF lives in Krakow and Myself in Dublin. I visit her every two months and it is running smooth. I think he is saving money by not texting you quite often :), I use my polish number as incoming text is free while you are on roaming and we are in touch almost all the time.

Ask him to send one sim card for you & it will be handy for him to text you & you can reply from your national number to him.

Well, I wish you good luck.

Cheers.

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Oct 11, 11, 20:21 #41

relationships like that never work.... you do not really know each other, even tho you talk online everyday... it's a waste of time... trust me, i know...
just go out and find a guy in a real life...

it works!!!

we met online.
Met after 7 months of online chatting.
Flew to my home country next day after we met.
After 6 months he proposed and we got engaged.
After 7 months, we got married.
After 3 weeks, I arrived to Poland.
And now, we're expecting a baby

NatasaThreads: 7 Posts: 2,611 Joined: Jun 6, 10 MEMBER ♀	Oct 11, 11, 21:04 #42
It can work. Sometimes. I met a guy online in 2000. and we were in quite gratifying relationship (shared evaluation) for almost 2 years. Although he was from Belgrade like me, we both hesitated to meet in person for 3 months, being afraid that the online magic will be gone. It wasn't :) One perfect intermezzo ;) stop the earth i want to get off

beckskiThreads: 19 Posts: 2,148 Joined: May 15, 07 MEMBER ♀	Oct 12, 11, 06:55 #43
And now, we're expecting a baby What a charming love story. I guess fairytales do come true sleeping beauty :) A sincere thanks PF, for putting up with me FIVE terrific years, muah!

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