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woodcouch  Dec 14, 11, 23:25    #1
Im an Irish man and have been talking to a girl I work with mainly on facebook. As its hard to really get to know some one probably on it, I want to ask her out but Polish customs seem to be different to what I have heard. I want this to work as I really like her and we seem to be able to tell each other everything. And when we are in difficult situation we are there to help each other but we dont really know enough of our past lives.

Basically all I want to is what is the best way to ask her out? What is considered the best thing to do on the first get together? Want to do it right as she has had previous Irish boyfriends and they have hurted her and I dont want to be the same as them. I dont think I am but want to show her anyway.
SeanusThreads: 22
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Joined: Dec 25, 07 ♂ 		 Dec 14, 11, 23:29    #2
Ask her which number you are in the queue behind Bartek, Tomek, Romek and co.
southernThreads: 116
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Joined: May 17, 07 ♂ 		 Dec 14, 11, 23:58    #3
Ask her if she wants any pomoc.
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Joined: Dec 9, 09  Pictures: 1 ♀ 		 Dec 15, 11, 00:08    #4
opportunity will present itself
WulkanThreads: 1
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Joined: Dec 28, 07 ♂ 		 Dec 15, 11, 00:10    #5
woodcouch:
Im an Irish man


woodcouch:
have hurted her

scottie1113Threads: 11
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Joined: Mar 13, 07 ♂ 		 Dec 15, 11, 00:24    #6
Why bother to answer someone who isn't registered, can't write well though he claims to be an Irish man, and doesn't know how to ask a girl for a date? He sounds like he's 15.

Harsh?

Welcome to life.
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Joined: Dec 9, 09  Pictures: 1 ♀ 		 Dec 15, 11, 02:41    #7
He needs a coach. This could be an interesting social experiment.
Want to try southern's line, wood? He's not joking, and he's supposedly got game.
irishbornThreads: 4
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Joined: Sep 23, 08 ♂ 		Edited by: irishborn  Dec 15, 11, 09:06    #8
What age are you?
1. improve your English
2. go to the hospital and get some nuts attached
3. be a man and ask her
4. repeat if unsuccessful
RichfilthThreads: 8
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Joined: Mar 8, 09 ♂ 		 Dec 15, 11, 09:15    #9
Christ, just say "are you free this weekend for a coffee" and see what she says. If she says she's busy all weekend and doesn't follow it with "but I am free on...", it means she's not interested.

You don't have to get her father's permission to buy her a latte.
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Joined: Sep 23, 08 ♂ 		 Dec 15, 11, 09:17    #10
Is this how the kids do it nowadays? on FB?

God I miss the old days
wetneck  Dec 15, 11, 10:23    #11
and why won't you get yourself an nice cailín instead of a polainnis cailín
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Joined: May 17, 07 ♂ 		 Dec 15, 11, 12:27    #12
Richfilth:
are you free this weekend for a coffee"


Coffee is not a very good bait for a Polka.A meal with pierogi and some wine can work better.But usually a polish woman makes better use of resources if she undertakes control herself.
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Joined: Jul 27, 11 ♂ 		Edited by: Sidliste_Chodov  Dec 15, 11, 13:08    #13
southern:
Coffee is not a very good bait for a Polka.


In my experience (i.e., many years of real-life experience, not chatting breeze on PF like you do), Polki do like meeting for coffee - indeed, it's often their suggestion. Probably because when they suggest coffee, it means coffee - whereas over here, "coffee" means sex. No decent Polish woman will suggest sex for a first date.

You have to be more direct with Polish women - if you want coffee, say coffee; if you want sex, say ³ó¿ko. :D

"Let's go for a kebab" won't work, by the way, just in case you were wondering. LOL :)

irishborn:
Is this how the kids do it nowadays? on FB?


Not just the kids - my last ex asked me out on FB and we are a long way from being "kids", lol.


scottie1113:
Why bother to answer someone who isn't registered, can't write well though he claims to be an Irish man, and doesn't know how to ask a girl for a date? He sounds like he's 15.


Looks like woodcouch won't be "getting wood" for a while then; except on his own, maybe. haha :)
southernThreads: 116
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Joined: May 17, 07 ♂ 		 Dec 15, 11, 13:51    #14
Indeed first date is usually for coffee but with some magic it ends in a room especially if it happens to be close to coffee shop.
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Joined: Dec 12, 11 ♀ 		 Dec 15, 11, 14:17    #15
Coffee or lunch is a good idea, dinner is to close to night and suggests something else :) especially dinner in your or her place ;) should follow when time is right
southernThreads: 116
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Joined: May 17, 07 ♂ 		 Dec 15, 11, 14:24    #16
If she looks slim coffee is better.If she looks more curvy lunch is better.If she is very young club is better.If she is older than 30 years old drinks are better always depending on the individual.


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