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Amathyst They are the closest to you (apart from family) who will give your sound advise based on their knowledge of you personally. I don't trust friends. Even if they say they want to help they do it because expect sth from me in the future. I rely only on my family. I can't say to them: "I need sth from you", because some of them wait for having an opportunity to help me. I don't used to give them satisfaction. There are friends and friends.
Amathyst Strangely enough we have a friend with cancer and we all went out for her birthday at weekend and we were all very open about the situation...nothing small about those chats... I wouldnt dream of going on a forum asking for advice, it would be like ordering underwear on line...Just wrong! Small chats are nice, but feeling pity for sb is wrong IMPO and I avoid it.
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