Does it bother you guys?
depends on the woman and her work ethic. generally it wouldnt bother me, in fact i'd welcome it.
For your information, workmarket in SA is shrinking for 'pale males' in SA due to very open and official policies giving preference to blacks (this is called BEEE), perhaps if he was black he would make more :-P
Sucks not to be able to call the shots anymore hey. Its ony retribution.
but it does motivate him to progress,
Progress....what in a financial manner, you keep earning the money love and let him prgress in his own way, nice to see the tables turned IMO.