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Why Did You Marry? People married again in USA and never got divorces from their spouses.


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BusyBody  Sep 19, 10, 02:03    #1
I have met lot of Polish, Italian, Russian, Ukraines and others.

They left their countries to works in U.S.A. and left their spouses behinds. Their children came with their mothers or fatherss to lives better world.

Guess what these people got married again and never got divorces from their spouses. Why did you do it? What happens if your husbands or wives come looking for you? There will be messy problems in U.S.A.

What do you have to say?
MareGaeaThreads: 45
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Joined: Feb 6, 08 ♂ 		 Sep 19, 10, 02:11    #2
He does have a point though. There are quite a few Polish (or other nationalities, it doesn't make that much difference) girlies that have bf's back home and yet pretend over here or elsewhere abroad that they don't and start sth with a local or sb they met here. It does happen. Not saying it's the majority, but it does happen and things do get messy when it comes out.

>^..^<

M-G (knows from his own experience)
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tell us more, busybody, what is your connection: are you the wife left behind or gf who found out your bf is married?
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MareGaea:
M-G (knows from his own experience)

Must be karma, what goes around comes around, ;)

BusyBody:
I have met lot of Polish, Italian, Russian, Ukraines and others.

Interesting, your nick and this statement tell all? Busy promiscuous beaver are we? So how many has there been? Do tell, don’t be shy. We like a good bedtime story on a slow weekend.
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ShortHairThug:
Must be karma, what goes around comes around


Just wondering what in that case will happen to you...

>^..^<

M-G (after all, what goes around, comes around, eh?)
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Yes,Polki keep some bfs in reserve.
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southern:
Yes,Polki keep some bfs in reserve.

I'm intrigued, southern. How old are you?
;)
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I am at the age of Navukhodonosor.I have seen several Polki.
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If you're that old, you wouldn't be out of place with a teenage girlfriend in Thailand.
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bimber94:
with a teenage girlfriend in Thailand


A pedophile?
SeanusThreads: 22
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Joined: Dec 25, 07 ♂ 		 Sep 19, 10, 11:27    #11
This really is a good point by the OP. Divorce is not really that onerous here, unlike in Scotland where the standard of 'irretrievable breakdown of marriage' must be proven. I think part of it is the shame that comes with annuling a marriage consummated in the Catholic church. They'd rather pretend that it never existed than face up to the problem. To me, such types are downright irresponsible and I'll judge them no further.
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What do you think of the two-faced hypocrites who for the sake of convenience, expediency, gain or change of taste break their oath 'till death do you part'?
alexw68 Edited by: alexw68  Sep 19, 10, 12:54    #13
What do you think of the two-faced hypocrites who for the sake of convenience, expediency, gain or change of taste break their oath 'till death do you part'?

Nice to see you've grasped the concept of an open question.

Sometimes it just doesn't work out, people do change, irrevocably, to the point of incompatibility. P3 may I ask - is your conviction on this matter a personal credo (bluntly put: are you married?) or a religious platitude founded on no personal experience of your own?

In either case, frankly: Judge not, lest ye be judged.

A (15 years hitched and absolutely no plans to change anything about that)
BusyBody  Sep 19, 10, 15:00    #14
Oh Come On Polish Members

I have feeling you have hiding something from people.

I am American and am very surprise that everybody leaves their countries to get marry American and disappears from their loved one.
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It doesn't appear to be a problem for some here. Many move away from Poland and stick their fingers up. Never have I known such a divided people. People that praise Poland, almost out of a feeling of necessity rather than true belief, yet condemn it and run away when times get tough. There is a boredom that can be seen here. Boredom causes funny reactions.
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Southern
I am at the age of Navukhodonosor.I have seen several Polki.

He died at the age of 58.
I hope you are still 16.
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BusyBody:
I have feeling you have hiding something from people.

I am American and am very surprise that everybody leaves their countries to get marry American and disappears from their loved one.

If you are American than either you are a example of a failed education system or more likely you are just a poser who is trying to say they are American... The system is bad but I hope it isn't that bad!
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BusyBody:
I am American and am very surprise that everybody leaves their countries

How did you become an American?
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Definitely married a single time and still sticking it out. Sure it can be rough going at times but high-tailing one's way out of things would be a corward's way out. After all, a man's word is his bond. Oaths are meant to be kept unless you're a liar, perjurer, conman or hypocrite.
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f stop:
How did you become an American?


Don't know how she did it, but I was born there.
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BusyBody:
Why Did You Marry?


I didn't. Why? Well, as you've said it yourself, after marriage comes divorce, and divorce just costs too much money.

BusyBody:
What do you have to say?


Preferably 18. Blonde. Stupid.

:)
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I would not go to the US even free of charge. As a Belgian I do not need a visa. I will never ever go there. Some dumb border Gestapo asking me why I would like to enter his country? I prefer to stay in the Old Continent. A beer in Antwerp is better as any primitive at JFK.
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A J:
after marriage comes divorce


Say's you...

Also, the divorce rates really aren't that high as some exaggerate them to be...
http://www.divorcereform.org/rates.html
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George8600:
Say's you...


No, says others.

;P

George8600:
Also, the divorce rates really aren't that high as some exaggerate them to be...


That's not what I've seen around me.

:)

Forget it!
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sobieski:
I would not go to the US even free of charge. As a Belgian I do not need a visa. I will never ever go there. Some dumb border Gestapo asking me why I would like to enter his country? I prefer to stay in the Old Continent. A beer in Antwerp is better as any primitive at JFK.

Man, you need to take it easy.How do you know what they would ask you?Last time I travelled the only question they asked me was "How you doing sir?"
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Polonius3:
hypocrite.


yes my husband was one today, but I forgive him
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BusyBody:
Their children came with their mothers or fatherss to lives better world.

Who says that "lives better world" in US? We all have to work here, even women, and 45% of our earnings are taken away for medicare, taxes, ss, etc. But I guess if you're here illegally the gov. supports you with our tax money we work so hard for, that's why we don't like you illegal, lying, cheating foreigners.
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Seanus:
Divorce is not really that onerous here, unlike in Scotland where the standard of 'irretrievable breakdown of marriage' must be proven. I think part of it is the shame that comes with annuling a marriage consummated in the Catholic church. They'd rather pretend that it never existed than face up to the problem. To me, such types are downright irresponsible

Seanus:
Boredom causes funny reactions.

Polonius3:
hypocrites who for the sake of convenience, expediency, gain or change of taste break their oath 'till death do you part'?

Polonius3:
a man's word is his bond. Oaths are meant to be kept


In the US we have "no fault" divorces. One needs any or no reason at all to just call it quits and there's not anything the spurned spouse can do about it. A full half of marriages fail these days. And many other couples simply never bother and just shack up together.
The result has been that marriage is no longer valued, it is seen as something not permanent, disposable. And we have seen a slow decline of the family unit and the resulting social problems associated in our society.
That's why some of us have never taken the plunge. We take our word more seriously so when we say "I do" we'll mean it.
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trener zolwia:
In the US we have "no fault" divorces.

Depends what state you're in. Some states do require a reason
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tygrys:
Depends what state you're in. Some states do require a reason

Yeah, it does vary slightly from state to state. But by and larger, anyone can get a divorce in the US who wants to, for little or no real reason... Often, as Seanus mentioned, the reason is boredom...

Some Lib dope:
smart and realistic

more:
actually a good thing

more:
a good thing

yep, same dope still...:
You seem to whine a lot about all the ''decline''

See how Libs feel about the destruction of the family unit via wanton divorce. Gotta love that Lib 'do whatever feels good, the cost to others and society be damned' attitude. This is what has largely contributed to society's resulting problems. They don't even care about the toll on children of divorce... It's like they're trying to destroy society... :s
And Libs aren't exactly known for their integrity and keeping their word, either, so it's little wonder they see marriage vows as temporary and marriage as disposable...

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