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Feb 25, 08, 12:03 #12
I am not as impressed with homeschooling in the US, as some people there are.
I was born and raised in the States and lived my whole life there 'til we recently moved to Poland.
I unfortunately saw quite a bit of poor quality homeschooling, in the state of PA.
Cheating appeared to be rampant in the homeschooling system where I am from, because the checks and balances just are not where they should be yet.
Older sibs--or mom, for goodness sake--wrote the homework or papers, kids plagiarized from the internet, there were no trips to the city or visits to the library, or field trips of any kind, during an entire school year!
Some of these people barely ever left the house.
That's fine for hermits or closed religious societies like the Amish, but not for growing children, who will be required to fit into the larger society they are a part of, someday.
I take issue with the notion that "the state is evil or Godless", which is a concept you often see being taught in many homeschool environments in the US.
I also particularly disliked the "we must start homeschooling, to protect our kids from the lower class scum out there" attitude, that many homeschooling families in our area seemed to have. We lived in an affluent area and that was absurd, to me.
I understand the concept that a parent may want something they see as better for their kids, or moms and dads having concerns about violence, drugs, etc.
But by isolating their kids from all their peers and removing them completely from situations where judgement comes into play when they're younger, what they end up teaching the kids is that "different" is always "dangerous", that the absence of tempation is the same thing as virtue, and that "their" way is the "only" way of life and learning.
A lot of these kids simply do not mix well with others, can't handle peer pressure when it does come at the college level, and in my own personal experience, make some of the worst employees. They simply would not show up on time, complete a task through to the end, follow the rules, or make even a minor attempt to change bad behavior when it was brought to their attention.
3 of 5 I had over a 2 year period, I had to fire within a month. The other 2 quit within 3 months because the work was "too hard". Too hard? A part-time, white-collar, office job that paid $8.00 US per hour?
My other "normal" kids from the local high school (almost) never argued back--and certainly never to my face.
Why would they? I was their boss's boss.
They recognized there was a line they should not cross in an office enviroment/power heirarchy. I didn't have to teach them how to behave like an adult, or how to conduct themselves in an office.
But the homeschooled kids? No problem questioning authority, at all. They spoke to me in the same way I imagine they spoke to mom and dad when they were raging about something they got grounded for. Funny at home, maybe, but not in the real world. Which is where these kids ultimately end up.
This may not be the case where you live or lived, celinski and lesser, and for that you should be grateful. I am glad your experiences/brushes with homeschooling have been so positive.
Personally, my opinion is that it's a good idea in theory, but that in practice, homeschooling in the US leaves a lot to be desired.
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