What should i do - I want my Polish Pete back

hi guys
how do i get my polish pete back i have him on my mind 24/7 and we where seeing each other on and off and i have falling for him but when we got back together again i thought it was just sex because there was no love dove stuff at all.
The thing is we work together and he doesnt want the fuss in work but every time we have problem or hurt we always turn to each other for advise.
last month i got fed up because the only time i would hear from him is when he want sex which isnt right.
so a few weeks ago i started texting someone else from work and i think pete found out. the other person from work treats me like a queen but i dont really think of him in that way because i love pete still.
now pete isnt talking to me at all because i think he has found out about then other person in work.
the thing is why didnt he show me his feeling for me in the first place.
i would really like to have him back or at least as friend because i miss him so much
what the hell do i do?????????
he is the only person in the world i want to be with.
i dont normal bring out personnal stuff out on message boards but i cant really talk to anyone because everyone i know would know the other person and i dont want the fuss because it would make things worse.
please give me some advice really dont know what to do

Hes using you for sex and the other guys treating you well, its pretty obvious what you should do.....

I think you are fighting a lost cause. I'm sorry, but that's the way I see it.

I agree with that.

don't let him mess you about, dump him, there are others better than him

get one of these......

Likewise, but girls can be blinded by "Love" Wro, no matter how many times a guy puts 'em down they keep coming back....and all the while that guys grinning.

ok thanks guys it pretty obvious what your saying and i need to move on its just pain in the ass that i work with him

No offence but the translations you wanted hardly suggest that you wanted a man to take you serious...sorry just my opinion

I hear that sophie, but it must be PAINFULLY obvious that hes using you conviently...try things out with this other guy least hes got respect for you.

i did every thing for him so what do mean i dont want to be taken serious and i got nothing back he is the one that wasnt taken it serious and soon as i move on he wants to be serous. if it sounds like i am kicking off i am not men are just confusing

Yep,

just ignore him now the damage has been done, he seems like he wants what he cant have...so dont give it to him...if you do he will do it time and and time again...Like Av said give it a go with this other guy at least he treats you well and thats what all women deserve not some idiot playing games...btw, is this other guy Polish or English

your right everyone i will forget about polish pete.
amathyst the other guy is welsh like me.

thank everyone you really have opened my eyes

Your call sophie, you know what you want :)

I hear that Welsh men are very nice, so stick with it :)