Magdalena wrote:
I was partly lured by stuff like that... and Alice in Wonderland, and Dickens, and Stonehenge, and a vision of high tea and gentlemen with brollies... and three men in a boat, not counting the dog... ;-)
And pubs, and moors, and Lands' End (what an evocative name!) - and stuff.
Unfortunately, I have not (yet) found terribly much of that. I live in London and earn peanuts, because one thing I HAVE found is a very strong class system and a distrust of strangers (and their foreign qualifications). I fight to make ends meet even though I am a very competent translator / interpreter - the problem is that I cannot afford to pay several hundred pounds for an Institute of Linguists or Institute of Translators and Interpreters exam and get their "title", and without it I cannot get better jobs, so I earn little money, and so on... 10 years of professional experience in Poland and a rather nice CV mean nothing here, and I have had to start from scratch. No bitterness of course, I am a humble person and all that, but still - the social system in Britain is very inflexible. If I had the money to start with, I could earn more money, but I entered the system as an outsider and simply cannot jump any higher. I cannot afford it! This is something that I had NOT anticipated. :-(
I would actually love to go back to Poland, as my primary goal (of improving my English) has been, I think, already reached, but I would hate to go back as empty-handed as I had left. And I had left empty-handed because of personal stuff which meant leaving my home and my thriving translation business behind. I thought I would make it in a year or two and come back victorious. It's more a question of staying afloat now. Well, rant over. ;-(
I'm 34 years old, born and bred in the Home Counties of England in the shadow of the South Downs and named after a character in Britain's longest running drama serial .......can't get much more English than that, but I've still yet to see men walking to work in bowler hats carrying a brief case, an umbrella and a rolled up copy of "The Times". I think that is my parents' generation that you're talking about.
The genteel pace of life in the UK, similar to that seen on TV in things like Miss Marple or The Vicar of Dibley, has long gone and it has NOTHING to do with immigration. I'm not a social historian and can't give you specific reasons for it, but a "selfishness" has come from somewhere. I describe the current generation as the "Heat Magazine / Big Brother" generation with an unhealthy interest in the likes of David and Victoria Beckham.
That combined with what I see as soaring crime rates makes a grim future for all of us trying to make it here.
Keep plugging away Magdalena, but there is no shame in going home and saying things didn't work out. In fact it takes enormous courage to do that and should be seen as a real strength of character to be admired. Do what's right for you and don't worry about what others may or may not be thinking. Lands End really takes your breath away, so try and visit it if you can.
Osiol says this thread is the usual "shi*e throwing". Well, as I'm new here I can't compare it to what has gone before, but I think there is quite a lot of intelligent discussion going on for those who choose to find it and read it.