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 Feb 14, 11, 00:54    #1
Which modern developments, practices or phenomena in Poland or your home country do you regard as negative? Why? What is the alternative? For instance workaholism, Internet addiction, atomised families, environamental destruction, megabureacratic governments, etc.

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 Feb 14, 11, 00:57    #2
Polonius3:
Internet addiction

A few of us here should know about that. But the young seem to have very short attention spans nowadays.
Polonius3:
atomised families

Without a dining table in the home even.

In the UK, the decline of pub culture and the growth of suburbia, everyone staying at home in insulated bubbles, driving to the mall. In Poland, gated estates.

But above all, television. Too much, too trashy.
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 Feb 14, 11, 12:48    #3
In America atomisation started when the youngster got his own TV set, then mum got a little portable to watch her soaps while working in the kitchen and other family members (if there were more) ditto... Originally the telly borught families together. in Poland relatives tell me that when they were one of the first in their village with a TV set, neighbours would come round with their chairs to sit on for DTV and Monday night Teatr Telewizji but even more so for Thursday night Kobra (murder mysteries) sessions.
Trashy TV in Poland? Quite! But what country would you hold up as a model of televison excellence? Birtian, the USA, France, Finland, Belarus? In the global era they all show tacky soaps, Jerry Springer type crap, reality shows, extreme sports, MTV, porn, etc., generously peppered with really stupid adverts.
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 Feb 14, 11, 16:43    #4
Polonius3:
workaholism,


seems to be forced on some workers

Polonius3:
Jerry Springer type crap


one doesn't have to watch it. the beauty of tv is choice.

Polonius3:
reality shows,


i quite enjoy some of them

Polonius3:
extreme sports,


a lot of skill involved. plus steel balls for some of those folk

Polonius3:
MTV


plenty of choice

Polonius3:
porn,


a little porn never harmed anyone.


in some places, example wroclaw, there is no vision when it comes to architecture
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 Feb 14, 11, 18:54    #5
Not every choice is a good thing when it infects immature or underdeveloped minds. Do you really thing a nine or 10-year-old finding out about 'love' on an Internet porn site is the best soltuion.
And the topic was the trashiness of much of TV. There is no question that there's plenty of choice. The question is: why do so many choose thta which is cheap, tacky, trashy and gutter-level?
Who is the blame: parents, the school, the church, the media, peer pressure?
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 Feb 14, 11, 19:01    #6
Polonius3:
And the topic was the trashiness of much of TV. There is no question that there's plenty of choice. The question is: why do so many choose thta which is cheap, tacky, trashy and gutter-level?

Cheap to make and appealing to the lowest common denominator. Kind of bread and circuses.

I used to grumble about how bad Polish TV was compared to the UK, then ten years later, I go back to the UK for a couple of months and see that it's declined there even further.
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Edited by: joepilsudski  Feb 14, 11, 19:29    #7
Polonius3:
Which modern developments, practices or phenomena in Poland or your home country do you regard as negative? Why? What is the alternative? For instance workaholism, Internet addiction, atomised families, environamental destruction, megabureacratic governments, etc.


Pope John Paul II warned that the great danger facing the West, including Poland, after the fall of communism would be consumerism...All of the problems you mention are related to this...From what I read on the Forum, it seems that both native Poles and some diaspora Poles, with their mindlessly negative attitude toward the Church, reflect this trend.

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 Feb 14, 11, 20:25    #8
Polonius3:
Do you really thing a nine or 10-year-old finding out about 'love' on an Internet porn site is the best soltuion.


your post seems to be directed at me.

you listed porn under tv trash. not internet.

any child watching tv after 9:00pm may see light porn.

and once again. it doesn't harm anyone.

Polonius3:
And the topic was the trashiness of much of TV. There is no question that there's plenty of choice. The question is: why do so many choose thta which is cheap, tacky, trashy and gutter-level?


i watch what i watch because i enjoy it.

the things you mention are only trash in your opinion, not mine.
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 Feb 14, 11, 20:46    #9
joepilsudski:
Pope John Paul II warned

And what do you think his attitude to some of the racist stuff that appears on PF would be?
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Edited by: SeanBM  Feb 14, 11, 21:02    #10
joepilsudski:
consumerism

I agree, consumerism, in its extreme is perverting people's idea of beauty, self esteem, freedom and reason.
Nothing specifically about Poland though.

Who doesn't want to live the dream:

"I'm just a regular Joe with a regular job.
I'm your average white suburbanite slob.
I like football and porno and books about war.
I've got an average house with a nice hardwood floor.
My wife and my job, my kids and my car.
My feet on my table and a Cuban cigar."


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 Feb 14, 11, 21:17    #11
What I think is the worst? The rat race, the "always be first and the best" attitude, if you're not original and popular than you're nothing...Many things...Mostly the attitude that you have to be Someone.
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 Feb 14, 11, 21:21    #12
SeanBM:
I agree, consumerism, in its extreme is perverting people's idea of beauty, self esteem, freedom and reason.
Nothing specifically about Poland though.

Yes. Check out the Amish/Plain People stuff on another thread. They get by without all that crap and are probably happier and much richer in themselves for it.

SeanBM:
Nothing specifically about Poland though.

I was talking to the teenage son of a diplomat in Warsaw not long ago. He'd attended posh private schools around the world. He said the rich kids in Warsaw were by far the most materialistic he'd ever come across, talking only about what they or their parents owned.

Nevertheless, a bank in Poland (a well known one) did a very private survey of their richest 10% of clients a few years ago and were surprised that over half of them hadn't been abroad, even for a holiday, in the past 10 years and tended to drive mid-range cars.
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Edited by: Wroclaw Boy  Feb 14, 11, 21:22    #13
Polonius3:
Which modern developments harm Poland?

You ya (unt
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jonni:
Check out the Amish/Plain People stuff on another thread.

Which one?
i think that's a bit of an extreme too, I shouldn't really knock it till I've tried it.
I think life has a lot to do with balance, do stupid things but balance it out with something semisensible ;p

jonni:
rich kids

I have met many rich secondary school kids and there is a tendency for them to be sycophants.

jonni:
over half of them hadn't been abroad, even for a holiday, in the past 10 years

? That's odd, I wonder why, any ideas? working too much?

jonni:
tended to drive mid-range cars.

I tend to agree, from personal experience.
Many of the (mentally) poorest people I know in Europe tend to wear the trendiest gear, drive flashy looking sports cars (but only flashy looking not actual sports cars) and have the latest mobile ringtones.
I guess people with cash don't need to prove themselves.
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 Feb 14, 11, 21:34    #15
Polonius3:
Who is the blame: parents, the school, the church, the media, peer pressure?

Parents.Who else?Why the school or the church?
jonni:
Check out the Amish/Plain People stuff on another thread. They get by without all that crap and are probably happier and much richer in themselves for it.

I agree but I wouldn't give up my PC :)
jonni:
Nevertheless, a bank in Poland (a well known one) did a very private survey of their richest 10% of clients a few years ago and were surprised that over half of them hadn't been abroad, even for a holiday, in the past 10 years and tended to drive mid-range cars.

I always thought that REALLY rich ppl don't show off.They have big money but they don't have to brag about it-they know what they have.
There is beautiful word in Polish:nowobogaccy (nem money)-that's the kind of ppl that always talks abot what they have.
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 Feb 14, 11, 21:39    #16
SeanBM:
Which one?

Bizarrely, the one about Formula1.
SeanBM:
? That's odd, I wonder why, any ideas? working too much?

The guy who told me (a marketing bod) said that they suspected it was to do with the fact that some of their richest clients were farmers who'd got into businesses like making breezeblocks and cement rendering etc, and were the type of people who were naturally frugal, very family orientated, not particularly inquisitive about life outside their immediate sphere of interest and not ones for holidays or frivolous spending etc.

Perhaps not a very scientific analysis, but an interesting thought.
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Edited by: SeanBM  Feb 14, 11, 21:39    #17
Lenka:
Parents.Who else?

The media?

Lenka:
I agree but I wouldn't give up my PC :)

Or buttons... :)

Lenka:
There is beautiful word in Polish:nowobogaccy (nem money)-that's the kind of ppl that always talks abot what they have.

We say "Nouveau riche", the opposite being "Old money".

jonni:
Bizarrely, the one about Formula1.

Hahaha, I have some reading to do :)

jonni:

Perhaps not a very scientific analysis, but an interesting thought.

Curious alright.
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Edited by: Wroclaw Boy  Feb 14, 11, 21:39    #18
Lenka:
There is beautiful word in Polish:nowobogaccy (nem money)-that's the kind of ppl that always talks abot what they have.

Ive met lots of them in Poland, all the talk but still living in a small flat with a mediocre car. It is what it is, thats one of the reason ive come to despise capitalism.
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 Feb 14, 11, 21:42    #19
Wroclaw Boy:
all the talk but still living in a small flat with a mediocre car.

Because rich people with class don't brag about it.
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Edited by: grubas  Feb 14, 11, 21:49    #20
Wroclaw Boy:
Ive met lots of them in Poland, all the talk but still living in a small flat with a mediocre car. It is what it is, thats one of the reason ive come to despise capitalism.

What you don't understand is that during "communism " times it was (and still is) much better for you not to show off.I know a guy easily worth 10 milions PLN and he is driving 95 VW Passat and when you ask him how is he doing he will tell you that he is not doing good at all.
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 Feb 14, 11, 21:49    #21
JaneDoe:
people with class don't brag

I think that's a general rule, not only the rich can afford :)
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Edited by: jonni  Feb 14, 11, 21:50    #22
JaneDoe:
Because rich people with class don't brag about it.

Very true. Though bragging nouveau riche or not, few of us decline invitations from multi-millionaires.
alexw68  Feb 14, 11, 21:54    #23
JaneDoe:
Because rich people with class don't brag about it.

Think I might have spotted an oxymoron there. Depends how you define rich, of course...
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 Feb 14, 11, 22:06    #24
One of the main reasons for the problem is the decline of consensus. Atomisaiton of the family has developed along with the polarisation of society. Used to be in the USA that parents, school and Church (many if not most PolAms attended Catholic schools) were all on the same team rearing schoolchildren. So were neighbrs and family friends. If a parent was called into school because Johnny had done something stupid, little Johnny would 'sorely' regret it. He was not only grounded, depriced of TV and pocket money that week but may well have been in for a good thrashing. Now the parent starts badmouthing the teahcer, apparently siding with the kid. But isn't it really out of some parental guilt feeling that he/she isn't devoting enough time to he youngster? He/sge may be driving the kid to practice and showring him with gadgets and fashion items, but he is not giving of himself and sees this as an opportuntiy to redeem himself. What do you think?
If you disagree with that assessment, what is yours? Why has the child-rearing consensus collapsed?
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 Feb 14, 11, 22:12    #25
Polonius3:
Atomisaiton of the family has developed along with the polarisation of society

Welcome to the EU/capitalizm ;D
Polonius3:
So were neighbrs and family friends. If a parent was called into school because Johnny had done something stupid, little Johnny would 'sorely' regret it. He was not only grounded, depriced of TV and pocket money that week but may well have been in for a good thrashing.

Good old times. They will never come back.
Now parents have to psychologists, sponsors....and of course for the kiddy only the best.
My guess is that this trend is not to stop. Unfortunately. Consequences of that we will probably not experience... ;-)
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Edited by: SeanBM  Feb 14, 11, 22:13    #26
Polonius3:
He was not only grounded, depriced of TV and pocket money that week but may well have been in for a good thrashing.

Which century are we talking about again?

Polonius3:
Now the parent starts badmouthing the teahcer, apparently siding with the kid.

Are we talking about Poland or where you are?

Polonius3:
If you disagree with that assessment, what is yours? Why has the child-rearing consensus collapsed?

I don't think it has collapsed.
Yes, there has always been a minority that have literally paid for their child's affections but that is not knew and not the norm.
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Edited by: Lenka  Feb 14, 11, 22:14    #27
SeanBM:
The media?

Media give opportunities but it's parents job to raise their children.
grubas:
What you don't understand is that during "communism " times it was (and still is) much better for you not to show off.I know a guy easily worth 10 milions PLN and he is driving 95 VW Passat and when you ask him how is he doing he will tell you that he is not doing good at all.

I think it's not that.Ppl with class don't show off and it has nothing to do with communism-it was always a
faux pas to be flashy.
SeanBM:
We say "Nouveau riche"

We have nuworysze but it's about ppl who were promoted to the upper class(by money or education) but are still not accepted there.The word nowobogaccy means ppl that are wealthy but stupid and with bad taste.
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 Feb 14, 11, 23:09    #28
SeanBM:
Are we talking about Poland or where you are?


Both, probably.

I've heard a fair few shocking stories recently about parents - it seems that Poland is much worse than the UK/Ireland when it comes to directly attempting to manipulate teachers.
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delphiandomine:
it seems that Poland is much worse than the UK/Ireland when it comes to directly attempting to manipulate teachers.

I know a teacher here and one of the kids fell and chipped his teeth, the teacher was scared, especially when the father of the chipped toothed young fella came in to speak to her.
He came to apologise about his child's disruptive behaviour.

Although that thread on Polish cheating is interesting.
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 Feb 15, 11, 00:22    #30
jonni:
In Poland, gated estates.

I stayed with someone in one of these in Warsaw,all the householders hated it,called it "the ghetto".....walls and gates suddenly appearing round your previously pretty well crime free neighbourhood,thats gotta suck.

lols,The Amish,the perfect example of blind religious nonsense. Must live by the Bible but are Forbiden to read the Bible,which they would have a job doing as none of them speak the origional high german its written in.
They arnt allowed electric power into their homes so they have mobile hand set phones with the power source in a shed :)
Mind you,say what you will,most of them come back after that rumspringger thing.


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