A Story of mine

You know friend....'AvJoeUK'... I would never have wished to read such a long introduction, if it would not have been such a touching one.

First of all... you have wonderful writing skills. This has helped me in my English (arguably the main reason for my presence in here).

Now just my reaction to it: Poland is not UK (and this is not to make you more hurt please...). We have all kinds of girls here... but the one who will sleep with you and be in the same flat with you (without any secure, official bond), is perhaps a playgirl (?) (a female version of playboy).

I dont know about the girls people look for in pubs/nightclubs and bars... Never looked for a girl there (because I know, people there are obviously not my time), but the girl who will just be this easy with me!...Is surely a mistake (if my aims are more stable, warm and true relationship).

The right girl would welcome you. And perhaps kiss you on your 5th/6th meeting... She might sleep with you after knowing you for atleast another year (live, not in msn). Or, better still, she would simply wait for a more firm ground (e.g. marriage).

Perhaps sex didnt happen between you (perhaps)... but, whatever happened was too bold and fast. Like a sudden flame on a matchstick.... it extinguishes as soon as its lit.

Choose a person, for her inner qualities --- not what she looks outside. Looks can dazzle you... just like looking at the bright day time sun can make you blind for a short time, and all else is not visible. But soon this dazzle is over...and truth appears infront.

Hope you have a nice stay in Polish Forums.... and you next girl friend (Polish, English or any...) be more humane, more according to you life.

Have a nice time :)

The thing is whilst she was decieving me I didnt know what her true intentions were, sex did happen alot the second time but it was pre-planned or anything. I guess I just fell head over hells because Id never experienced what I thought was true love.

Turns out it was only one-sided, but like these guys have said once bitten twice shy. I had to experience it sometime in my life and I guess Its helped me and changed the way I perceive relationships in the future :P

Cheers for the words Lone

everygirl in europe (germany included) r according to you playboy? all spread easy - wake up! no smart word frm you.


cheers-keep enjoying. :)

Hardly, havn't heard a word in over 3months :)

you are wrong. I can say no more, but you are very wrong.