the strange polish girl who broke my heart

i am a persian boy, a student. i met a polish girl a few years back in poland, when i was there for university. she was cute, short and very friendly.
soon we became friends (with other foriegn students too). we had fun, site seeing etc. although all the time she seemed to be particularly interested in me!
it was me, a peurto rican, an indian, a chinese girl and a south african (black) boy. we all were invited to her birthday where we all had a great party, and everyone (including the polish girl) drink and danced. only the chinese girl and the indian boy didnt drink and left early, otherwise we all where partying, and i was there only for her.
i started drinking too, as she forced me. time went by, people left > only i remained there with her. we stayed together that night, even slept together! we had sex.
next morning her parents came to know that we spent the night together, where she lied that we didnt have sex, just slept as we were over drunk. her parents were still angry on her, i just moved away before things came down to me!
later she behaved as nothing had happened. she still says she is just friend. i told her my feelings, but she keeps saying 'life is short, and I dont want to commit now!, please let us remain friends - i just want to have fun!' .
THIS SHOCKS ME! I NEVER HAD SEX BEFORE, I NEVER GOT DRUNK, AND I NEVER LOVED ANYONE SO MUCH BEFORE! >> is this common for polish girls? is this treated normally? how can you be like this? how? > i feel heartbroken, i feel empty ever since, so i like to share my story here with you all.

DO YOU WANT TO SHARE SOMETHING TOO?

she is 20
i am 23

So a cute 20 year old Polish girl, forces you to get drunk, has sex with you and then wants absolutely no commitment from you - just wants to have fun...........!!!!!

You can have my last Rolo if you want

Frankly, it is shocking to me that you are 23 and have never got drunk? If you want to socialize and meet new people, you need to have a drink or two - especially at your age.

get drunk and fuk her best friend...

I'll share this with you: chalk this one up to a learning experience....drunken sex rarely leads to something more serious......you both are young and shouldn't be tying yourselves down right now......go out and live a little.......one thing, don't get drunk again and fuk her best friend (unless, of course, she's really HOT and it will make the other one jealous)!

[I hope you see the sarcasm in that last remark]

just hope all the best with u. forget about her...

Please note: This is a misleading advise.


You slipped. It is your fault also. If you are so nice, then why were you a part of this sick atmosphere?
You yourself have written that the Indian and Chinese left and was not a part of this really crazy party. So you did get tempted didnt you? ... and you have paid for it.

See... such parties happen in Poland. Such people are found everywhere, who come easy and go easy... So there is no use thinking or tearing your hair after them.

I have no advise for you. You will probably do whatever suits you.

Sayonara ...

P.S. Polish women are not like that. All kinds of people here...many of my friends (me including) wait for the right girl, and avoid alcohol at any cost! I AM A POLISH.

Who's telling the truth then? Maybe the girl wasn't Polish after all.. Hmm..

I dont say she wasnt. Probably she was, and I do accept the truth (I will accept that whatever he wrote was true). BUT this is not what most polish girls are like.

I know our women, and they are more mature and more careful. It is true that I have heard the same rumour that Polish girls are attracted towards eastern men! But I can assure anyone that Polish girls are very careful in that, and THEY are certainly not like this one.

This girl seems to be one of those hooligan, who exist in every country.

Sh*t happens. We've all been there. Join the club.

not all ... some are more careful. But, dont give up, take this as a mistake...and move on towards betterment.

It is all in my distant past. Part of the learning curve.

Remember your past. Accept whats wrong is wrong. Look forward towards the future, and try your best to have it correct.

A human's life is a constant journey towards perfection. Some are ahead, some are behind. Some are very sharp and fast moving ahead....some are slow....some too slow.... BUT the important matter is that you are moving AHEAD! ....not static/stagnent!

Even thinking good is a part of development/improvement......giving up/not bothering about it/accepting the wrong as a fact of life....is not only degrading yourself as a human, but also will take you towards primitive attributes of impurity and give you a restless heart.

Lonestranger your thoughts would be best directed to Persian_Prince. I have reached contentment in life.

ok ...

No, not all Polish women behave this way.

I don't believe in god myself, i'm 41 still single, have no plans to get married, enjoy a drink, living in different countries and would say i have tremendous inner peace. I choose to live life to the full now, i have had some wonderful experiences in my life and will continue to do so. I guess at the end of the day it's entirely down to the individual...

For gawds sake PP, this happens. It's not a Polish thing, and it's not an age thing either. Hope you were not too smashed to remember it though. Enjoy the memory of losing your virginity and look forward to your next bonk. It might just be round the corner

hi, i loved one polish girl. we was going to marry this year june. i went to my country for a three week off, cz my granpa was ill. when i came back i came to know she chitted me. slept with a man from work. a srilankan man shaged her. oviously she started first. when i asked she said she is a *****. after two year i came to know i loved a *****.
i still hold the ring i bought for her.
what i come to know that polish nation are confuced nation. they r so confuced that they will make ur head bannnnnnngggggg
rayman76bd@yahoo.com

Dude!

You can't possibly think that after 1 night of drunken sex (where you were both drunk) leads to 'true love' the next day?

These sorts of situations happen regardless of what part of the world you are partying in. You can't fall in love with every random encounter.

Things like that happens anywhere. So its not really fair to generalize all Polish women as such. Even here in my country where people are still hypocritically traditional, stuff like that happens to young people.

What I can say is... I probably would have done the same thing. I'd lie to my parents the same way she did. It was a mistake to get drunk and have sex in the first place. Being together (just because you had sex) even if she doesn't love you wont make it all right.

She isn't ready for commitments, or serious relationships. She told you that, and she even said "please". So respect it.