My Stupid Friend

Agreed.

thats how it started with my ex wife.
she became buddies with one of her male co workers and that lead to way more than just friendship.

It's Ok for the wife to have girlfriends, but if it's a guy-friend, that causes friction. Same goes for husbands. If they have female friends, da wife don't like that.

ppl are effed.


oh btw.... it's not a "koala bear" but just "koala"

Well my two of my best friends are male they have both stayed over at my house and stayed on the sofa (one did have an intrest in me but I told him no chance, the other is gay!) - I personally think that people should be able to chose who their friends are regardless of sex - trust is a big issue here! I worked in engineering for quite a few years and a lot of my good friends were male and my b/f at the time didnt have an issue with this....may be nauczyciel does have an interest in this woman or maybe he is just a really good friend, its not for us to judge...

If we are to judge his "stupid friend" then I think it is fair to bring him [nauczyciel] into the equation.

Only nauczyciel knows ;)

I thought you already had a GF ??



this isnt unusual for a man who fears losing his GF.. I think most guys who find out
this is going on with another male would probably do the same. even if nothing is
theres always going to be jealousy.. its part of your nature.. you would prob
do the same if you were feeling neglected/fear of another man taking over no?

but that means the you'd have to be willing to listen and many husbands aren't. it's all this "fluffy, feely stuff," and women have big lungs. lol

chicken!! bak bak.. lol

jelousy is a waste of energy. you can't control others. "party on b....!" is what i'd say. this third person is never really the problem.


lol.. believe you me.. i am a lot different then they way you all are probably reading me. :D

oh yeah. well explain lol

so your saying you never in your whole life experienced jealousy?

I think your full of poop! lol everyone feels it, and even though we cant
do anything about it, its there, it hurts , but mostly makes people out of their minds
and of course facts should be layed down before jumping the gun and reacting
but some dont. like that guy nauzcy is talking bout ..

No! Really? :)

sometimes they can be.. what if the relationship is blooming? for one or the other
and they start feeling something but dont admit it yet? then what? it can happen.

i didn't say that.. i said it's a waste of time.. and i tend not to get jelous although i have a time or two... but like i also said, it's a big drain and if they're gonna go you just have to let them go.

but all that also may be prevented by being a "good" partner.. however, the definition of that needs to be about the same for both parties for the realtionship to work.

the problem is one's partner though not their friend. if the other relationship is blooming then the first one is dead. move on..

i am way more suddle on these forums about my niceness. ;) :D