How do the Polish girls view the Chinese guys?

If you means generally, I think americans are the most straightforward...

Many females (I think majority are Europeans) find it attractive in my view is that they are in the same culture and can understand more earier.

But if a European man and a Asian woman stay together, suppose the woman is not very straigtforward,they may have problems,that's what we call culture difference.

and which cave wall was this statistic painted on? ...the one next to a drawing of a woman being clubbed over the head and then dragged by her hair?

Rakky

Tunnel visioned? hmm yes I see your point. I am as bad as they are for stereotyping them. I should rethink about this. Thank you for your wise words Rakky. You speak sense.

oh and as for the girl, I wont be persuing it any further.Its obvious to me now that my chances are zero. Most of people here have pretty much given me the answer to that.

LMAO - go get 'im Daisy

I'm sorry.
You're not very bright.

Yes, you are correct though; you spoke about appearance and decided that life must suck for some people based on their appearance. Sooooo, it read very clear that you are incapable of reasoning that someone may not conform to your idea of attractive (based on height) and still have a very fulfilling life. Therefore you lack the mental capacity to imagine something other than what you believe to be true. Therefore you are not very intelligent.

You see what I did there? I just explained to you how stupid you are, in terms even you can understand.

Now go lick a ceiling fan.



If you decide someone's worth as a person and discredity their character so arbitrarily then you have made your world far less interesting than it can be. too bad for you.

K9999, show some fortitude man!
What is a generalization is not a strict rule!

You have to be analytical about this my friend. Now if you're interested in meeting someone then you gotta be open to the idea that she may not be Polish, just as you aren't. Is there an expat population where you live?hmmmm?

If someone else has done it then you can do it too! Now damnit, chin up and get to work on gettin some!

Foreigner4

what is expat?

You sound very courageous. "Chin up and get to work on gettin some!" Made me laugh. Its not as simple as you put it though.

I just prefer the Polish girl. I dont really take any notice of girls. I'm too busy at work to do that. But this one girl has completely caught my attention. I even tried to learn some polish words to say to her. Its not a regular occurance that I take interest in a girl like this. She seemed really nice. I wasnt thinking about sleeping with her, I was thinking more on the lines of dating her/having a relationship and eventually as a wife. But anyway I know its just a dream and it will never happen.

If you think it can't work-you're right.

If you think it can work- you're also right.

an expat (ex-patriot) is someone living outside of "their" country, you sir are an expat of the country you're from.

I've been there though, I mean, it's happened to all of us guys; thinking a girl is one thing and then finding out another thing.

Look my man, you gotta quit making assumptions and find out what she's like. Be respectful and also be critical, wait until you get to know what she's really like before you go imagining a future with this lass.

And don't cast a line when you can cast a net i.e. don't go fishing with a rod if you can find a way to fish with a net.

And bollocks you were too thinking of sleeping with her, i don't even know what she looks like and i'm thinking about it, it's what we do, we're guys! Don't push your nature away, embrace your nature, accept it, master it, and attack with it.

Now your strategy must show confidence, if you don't got none o' that, then you'll have to fake it. It'd be better if you didn't have to resort to that but remember confidence builds and tears down. So find ways to either project confidence or fake it and build it up.

Dress sense? you got any? if you don't then work on that.

Casual compliments? Yes. For Example: "Oh hi K9999's fantasy, how's it goin? Oh your hair looks really nice like that you know? (very short pause for reaction and continue) Anyhow can you take a look at these figures cause blah blah blah."

That's right mate, you throw that compliment out like it means both "jack" and "****" nothing at all. You even toss out a few compliments to others, but always in the middle of conversation- no one needs to know your strategy, everything must come off casual. Sincere? Yes, but don't go stuttering over it like it's the one thing you want to say before dying cause that does NOT show confidence.

anyhow that's just a feeler, if she doesn't respond to this or other tricks then it's a frozen lake you want to go swimming in, and that ain't a good idea. If it works then that's just a way to actually get to know something about this girl, as to whether or not you even like her personality.

this is a good line, bravo foreigner:)

standing ovation ;))

Hi,did you learn sth about psychology? just kiding...
Anyway,this what you said makes sense...hope it's helpful for K9999...

useful yes thank you foreigner4

I have spoken to her before, its abit vague I'm not sure whats going on. I see her friends talk amongst themselves in polish and laughing and giving dirty looks at me. she wasnt laughing. I thought i was just being paranoid and shouldnt draw a conclusion so quickly, so I post here to see if I can find an answer.

There is enough evidence here to help draw the conclusion that people in general find the chinese to be unfavourable to put it politely. I wont have to wonder anymore about "what do people think of the chinese etc"

hello k9999,

i happen to be a chinese as well, but difference is i was born in china not uk.

and i happen to have quite a few polish friends here in the uk and in poland. i never feel anything about different kinds of races between us. and wondering why do you feel that way.

seriously, it's nothing about your color, it'a all about who you are!!

Ok man, this is the last pep talk, then i gotta bail. Oh and a special thank you to the ladies for their "applause," it is nice to know people could enjoy that:)




you're dealing with female pack mentality. if what you've described actually went down as such then she showed very good poise given the situation. If she can withstand the call to cackle madly at you with her cohorts then that is a good sign.

But if you knew they were laughing at you, then why did you bother asking a question to a conclusion you already came to?



Hey now, that's uncalled for. Be honest, your original question was in regards to the more shapely of the species, not all poles (i could be wrong but i definitely got the impression you meant women) or all people for that matter. Anyhow champ, you gotta get out of the nest and sing sweet if you want a bird.

From what I know, many Polish women consider Chinese men handsome. How many times have I heard exclamations of awe for the likes of Bruce Lee and Chow Yun Fat?

I personally greatly respect, admire, and have love for Chinese people and their ancient culture.

Chinese girls are hot; I had three girlfriends, two Canadian, one from Mainland China (not three at once, of course).

Word on the street is that they're looking for you, mate! Your mis-spent youth is catching up with you, eh? he he he.:)

Hey Im polish- Its not entirely a fantasy but we tend to like manly traditional guys and for some reason there is the stereotype (probably wrong) that Chinese men aren't as manly as europeans. At the same time though, asians are smart and that is attractive to any woman who gets to know one. good luck!

Hello Polka

ah so now the chinese are not considered as manly as europeans as well as a stigma. I see I see. there seems to be alot of negative views of the chinese. Lol I guess it is a dream then. Ha ha I have been such an idiot to wonder about such a thing. Well I guess you wont know until you ask eh?

Keep dreaming, buddy - and follow 'em.

Follow this.

I'd listen to hyppia dude. Break the stereotype. Put the K in Fuc it and give her the 9x4.

Tell her I have a secret to tell you.I differ from the average Chinese in one crucial point.

is that the only thing that is on your mind when it comes to girls?

K9999 Listen, this isnt a issue of what people think , your trying to get the attention
of a female, its attraction is what your looking for,. now if she isnt starting to talk
with you or look at you or stare, maybe find ways to talk with you, then I would think
she isnt interested. it has nothing to do with race, if you looked like bruce lee and
approached her she still might not want to be bothered, its attraction, and if shes
not feeling it, then its not gonna work. it has nothing to do with ( A CHANCE) with
a Polish girl. because I happen to find some asian men extremely attractive but
if I dont feel that attraction, its off.. and yes bruce Lee is very sexy, too bad he died
so darn young, he is a Icon to many here in America.

all those muscles and very sleek and just a gorgeous display of man.

Chinese boy if you want to be able to do something with women,join the army.Stay there 2 years and afterwards every hesitation you express here will have been raised.

As an foreigner who really feel for a beautiful Polish women my advice would be:
Go for it !

I'm sure you've heard it 1000 times but it is true. Just talk to her, get to know her, let her enjoy your company, enjoy hers and see what happens. :-)

Either way I wish you the best of luck.


And penis size is meaningless compared to a frisky tongue XP

speak for yourself shorty. most girls care about penis size.

didn't know you are a girl;P

that was a low blow canuck

welcome back brother:), how is life in the flat land?