How do the Polish girls view the Chinese guys?

How do the Polish girls view the Chinese guys?

Through those beautiful blue eyes of theirs.

k9999 you wet blanket.I want to slap you with a wet fish.How dare you put down your own race.Its people like you who acts weak and insecure who gives the chinese a bad name.Be a man!!!not a wuss!!!......no sick man of asia!!!

Ha ha ha! Vivid and livid. Way to go T-boy! :)

lol THAT is a low blow ! penis size is one of the oldest low blows you can come up with !

Ah well you'll never met me so you'll never know the truth ;-)

well here on the praries we are getting freezing rain and a nice blizzard.

life is beautiful

in china there is a one child policy not enough girls and there is a thing about bride price which is not known in poland. maybe some of these ideas are new to some people but only some.

hello dudes!!! wow! lets get something straight k9999. I'm a chinese guy and I am dating an absolutey beautiful polish girl who is amazed and suprised at how I am able to make her feel beautiful and womanly all the time and everytime. Yes!! my fellow country man-it can happen, it has happened to me and 'IT COULD BE YOU'
Its a beautiful combination but a very rare and different one and you need a set of titanium balls to be able to handle one.
Goodluck dude and stop putting down yourself and the chinese race cos a lot of us are bloody gorgeous! I'm one of them. hehehe.

oh I see. I admire your great fortune in succesfully in being able to date a polish girl.

It seems I must not be one of the attractive chinese then.


you are right-me putting down the chinese. Its just an excuse for me to say a polish girl is not interested in me simply because I am chinese. I do apologise.
Its probably down to the fact that I am unatractive as well as other things (which Rakki has pointed out)that has nothing to do with being chinese.

omg...interesting, i can't talk about all polish girls...but about myselve and some of my friends i could tell you that we like chinese guys, and how they looks like. BTW i like talking with many people and i don't care about color of skin(racizm is baaaaaad). In Wrocław i can see many people from Asia, and sometimes they are looks better than European :P:P(really!)

wow, now that is very rare. not many polish girls i know like any asians and prefer the european type.

hmm...in Poland many people are interesting in chinese, korean and japanese culture....and many girls from this group of people likes this type.

Its been 10 years since I moved from Krakow, and I never had any encounters with Polish girls that were interested in asian men.. maybe times have changed..
Ale wtedy, polish girls tended to keep with their own men, and the families certainly did not like it when their girl was having relations with an asian or black.

not in all families people accept people with different color of skin. But yes...time has change everything...
"Its been 10 years since I moved from Krakow, and I never had any encounters with Polish girls that were interested in asian men." <-- so you must visit Wrocław xP

I've been there twice :) Piekne miasto

^_^ i am glad that you say it about my city, really

it's very similar to mine, Krakow, thats why :)

but people are really different if i can say something like that. But i like Kraków, one of my best friend is from this city:)

prawda, people are different. i would even say that people in Wrocław are generally more open. While the younger population in Krakow are as well, some of the older families are very proud and conservative that they are Krakowiacy. But that is changing now. I have an uncle that is still very much arrogant because he's from Krakow, and thinks himself somehow better than the rest of Poland. It isn't a bad thing to be proud of where you are from, but sometimes it gets to be too far.

You need a punch in the face!

I've had Chinese and European boyfriends. I'll tell you why I prefer European guys and the possible reasons why you're not having much luck with the Polish girl or any girl for that matter.

1) Women don't like 'wet blankets' like you. What's wrong with you? Some people say that Chinese guys are not their type and you suddenly change your mind in chasing this girl? They tell you to cover yourself in poo and jump off a cliff, you'd do that? I think so. Get a spine!

2) You have zero self-esteem and only see the negative. A lot of people are giving you positive suggestions and you keep repeating you're giving up. Low self-confidence and negativity is a real turn-off! And the last thing us girls want to do is be your mummy and reassure you all the time. And who wants to be with a guy who sees a little problem and jumps ship?

3) Your attitude toward a whole group of people makes your personality not very attractive. Just because you hate yourself for being Chinese, you don't have to lump all Chinese people together - so you've met every single Chinese person and spoke to them all have you? Every culture has their way of doing things. In one culture what is seen as good manners (eg in Japan slurping your noodles tells people you think it's good) in another country is seen as bad manners. It doesn't matter if you were talking about the Polish, French, Japanese etc, the fact that you're so narrow-minded is a big turn-off.

4) You keep putting yourself down, telling us you're not physically attractive either. Well, you may not be able to do much about that but you can always work on your personality.

I prefer European men because they make me feel more feminine and protected. I've had 2 Chinese boyfriends and they were 5'11 and very well-endowed so it's not always true about size. When I watched the Korean movie 'Daisy' I fell for the assassin character in it (see link).



I think in the end, everyone has a type they're attracted to, but I always find that when the personality is attractive and the person is physically attractive but not your type, and you slowly fall in love, that person soon becomes your type.

Are there any cultural differences between Chinese and Polish that may cause conflict in a relationship? From what I see, the cultures are compatible...

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I've had 2 Chinese boyfriends and they were 5'11 and very well-endowed so it's not always true about size. When I watched the Korean movie 'Daisy' I fell for the assassin character in it (see link).
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What were the challenges you experienced in your relationships with Chinese guys? Specifically, what cultural clashes can you identify?

hi ya, k9999
i am chinese and i ve got a polish bf
n he is the greatest bf EVER n we r vv sweet together now
wht i wanna say is..pls be confident in urself
dun be ashamed of being a chinese, n everyone is beautiful!!

n even u r not trying to deal with a polish girl, if u r not confident enough, u can never get a girl, no matter wht nationality she is

so be a man n gd luck :)

Any of you that make fun of two people that are happy because they look different or have different beliefs than you are cruel and stupid. Making fun of retarded people...didn't that go out of style when you were 12?

I also bet you have never been as happy as those you make fun of. Must suck to be so lonely.

Hello whtever

thank you for your words of encouragement. I know that a girl of any nationality will not find a guy attractive if he is not confident. I realised that.
Its admirable that you are happy together with your bf whatever nationality he is. Good for you.


Jones101

I dont quite understand when you say making fun of retarded people...was you referrring to me?
Lol are you saying I am a retard? (Oh dear so that is how I come across....)
I think I am socially inept. But not a retard. But anyhow I am just abit shocked should that be what you are saying I am.

Yes sir.

K9999: if you think your chances are zero, then they are zero. If you actually believe there is a chance, then there is one. Despite what some here are saying, I've generally seen that girls are not concerned with physical appearance at all, so long as you act right.

In my 1st year of Uni, I knew a guy who wasn't attractive at all - AND, he had no muscles, was quite short, and was acne-ridden (Oh, and he had a Liverpudlian accent). If he'd thought like you, he would've just hidden in his room and not done anything. But this guy flirted with girls all the time, and was constantly rewarded with success. I remember he went out to the shops once, and 10 minutes later came back, saying that he'd just gotten 2 phone numbers, from chatting with the girls in line. He could have had any girl he wanted, but wasn't physically desirable at all.

From this, I suspect that girls who care about looks in the same way men do are in the minority - this guy certainly had no problem getting any girl he wanted, no matter how pretty/hard to get they were.

Now, I'm not suggesting you can suddenly be Mr. Confidence Out His Ears, but I am suggesting that you can date her so long as you play it right. In any case, you have to put yourself on the line and ask her out, because then your chances go from 0% to ?%, and ? is better than 0. What's the worst that'll happen? Your fantasy bubble will pop and you can get on with your life?