what are the signs that shows a man is interested

Men and boys. This woman wants to know, because according to Southern, men are better at approaching girls. Okay so tell us curious ladies. What are the signs that shows us women that you men are into us?

Sparkle in the eyes, sweating of hands, silly looking face...

were talking to you.

Good one.



Not good one. That means that every guy I speak with is "interested"? I should be so lucky... :D

were talking to you. Lol

males tend to ramble or look sheepish when trying to ask you out and all that ....

Asking out for a date would be a pretty obvious sign.

It is, but I think she meant before that stage ;)

He would probably try to get your attention, talk to you, get in touch with you etc If he was inetersted he would let you know, if not then he is either not ineterested, a complete ass, or gay.

Yes that makes sense. Although, it's wrong to assume that men are always brave enough to make the first move...



Or neither...if he's not interested it may mean he just wants to be friends... :)

The men's eyes are much more difficult to read than the women's because the men hide their emotions better.You have to concentrate on posture,tone of voice,uncoscious movements(for example if he tends touch his nose,moves a lot his arms,keeps eye contact,his body is turned towards you or views at another place),there are a lot of things,however guys do not understand the messages of subtle communication that women send to them,so you need to be clear towards him,to seduce him.

How do you mean be more direct? I should tell him I want to sleep with him, that will get his attention immediately.

Don't agree so much with this. If there is something there then it can show in his eyes. Unless he is a master of deception...which many women are too...



And probably make him run...

tell him whats on your mind, direct is a good thing.
why not, but have some casual chat first.


correct


if the women is fat butt ugly and so on he will run.

No! If you don't know a guy and his reactions then you can't be forward like leeann wants to be. You could be the prettiest, sexiest female ever but if you say "hey I wanna get naked with you" to the wrong guy you could find him running.

Not so direct.You need to find a balance.This is the problem for women.You need to be relaxed,no edges.Make him a compliment.Touch him a little.Look him into eyes with promiscuous look.Laugh with his jokes.Make him feel comfortable and create attraction.
(Sorry I cannot translate this exactly to women's style of talking).

if a hottie tells a guy she wants to get naked with him and he runs, hes a fag, plain and simple.
a hottie wont get turned down. the guy may not believe it at first but he will go right along with it soon enough

No! You're thinking there is that every guy wants the same thing! If he runs, there is nothing wrong with him - fact! He is just a normal guy, plain and simple.

And yes! Hotties do get turned down, so keep on improving your general knowledge! :)

i have never seen a hottie get turned down if she looks like Gisele Bundchen.
maybe your idea of hottie is different

The bulge between his legs...

ROFL

Actually I was dancing with my new kochanie, and his bulge was pretty apparent. Which got me hot and bothered, too :)

Generally, a Polish guy will ask you out if he likes you.

A side I have never seen to you Southern, I'm used to laughing at your deliberately insensitive posts and here is some sensitivity! I think that's a good piece of advice you're giving.

wow...i like that.....
are you OK southern? :) where is the old southern? :)

Me too - Southern's posts are usually fun to read, but these are nice :)

Jesus girls your taking advice from a 38-year-old single guy and I think you can see why he is single lol

Wow Southern I'm impressed. You have a smooth touch and I like it. I was only joking, I know I cant say "I want to make sweet love to you", even though I do. Last Saturday I wanted to reach over the counter, grab his face and give him a lingering sensual deep kiss, but I quickly came to my senses. I cant see how excited he is to see me by looking at him down below becuase of the till. Lol.

Frank shouts loudly from his keyboard to the rest of the board......

" Is their a psychiatrist on the Polish Forums, cos we need him fast, one of our members has taken a turn..... a real bad turn, so bad, ALL the girls are concerned for his mental welll being!!!!!.......if not can ANYONE help....pleeeeaaaaaasssssseeeeeeeeeee!!!"





So this is all we represent to you girls...huh.........a bulge.....not a persona, not a wallet, not a free lunch, not someone to father your kids, or die for you in battle, or to sacrifice himself for you in a life time of drudgery doing a job he hates.....am so disheartened.......................................................... ...................................................................... ........................


But at least you noticed the bulge, gotta give ya credit for that!!!

Souther is on a roll.....

how do you know what i am or not?

It's fairly obvious to us all what you are dude :o)