how to distinguish between hard and soft consonants properly?

how? do u do this by positioning your mouth or tongue in a certain way? 4 example, i have a hard time pronouncing the hard consonants. i think to me, that 'grać' and 'gracz' are pronounced the same, at least as far as my ability goes which ends up being 'grać'. and then i think i pronounce 'szef' as 'śef' or 'żona' as 'źona' etc.

there is slight difference only... dont' know how to properly explain however..

Try to move your tongue - for the soft consonants the tip is flat somewhere in between the small gap between the teeth; for harder ones the back of the tongue slightly curles backward and and the tip retracts quite abruptly. Does it help? :P

curls backward

no i have no idea what you are talking about - sorry

Yeah right!

yeah right ! meaning what krysia

Do you need a picture?

yes im lost

it is of your tongue ?

hey, thx a lot u guys. to be honest such directions are always complicated and hard to understand. but now that i know its about moving the tongue, i think i can start making accurate pronunciations already.

really u want to practis with me

krysia maybe u can cum round to mine's and practise with our tongues?

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krysia you have lost me again

Let me tell you something plg. I am lost.
Tomorrow at this time I will be on a plane to Poland.
And I will miss you.

aaaaawwwwwwww i'll miss u too

thats why i should get yer number

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