how to get over him/her

Sometimes people are in relationships that have no future. Arguing all the time about silly things. You are on and off, break up and get back together. You try to forget but you cant because you love. Do you think it would ever work? or is it just better to try and forget/ get over?

Well, first off you said a relationship with no future...not a very positive start. On and Off also not good - Love is a word I'm seeing banded about all too often I'm not sure half the people that are using it actually know the meaning?

I think you have to weigh up the pros and cons to be honest if one out-weighs follow that path!

Life is too short to waste it in bad relationships worrying about the next break-up / argument that's not a life. I personally enjoy life and have no time for the negative aspects.

If I'm unhappy in my job - I change it, I see no reason that this shouldnt apply to my personal life too.