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Traveling with a friend


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holitaantonio
  May 11, 07, 21:23  #1

I am travelling with a friend who is a girl but is not my girlfriend for the whole summer. What should I do about getting a different girl without letting her think that the one I bring is really not my girlfriend. Be straightfowrd? THNKS

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daffy
  May 12, 07, 04:40  #2

You've lost me

Do you have a girlfriend who you are leaving for the summer to travel with another girl?



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Wroclaw
  May 12, 07, 05:16  #3

Tell them she is your sister. She can say you are her brother.


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sapphire
  May 12, 07, 08:28  #4

i spent a year travelling with a purely platonic male friend once and we both hooked up with other people along the way... I think it will be pretty obvious that you are not a couple and if an opportunity arises with someone else then you just act as normal and introduce her as your mate. I know that in some countries they might think its weird, but its good for you to educate them that there is nothing wrong with such friendships.. the only problem will be if one of you wants more than friendship. Having said that my male best friend did later get really jealous of a relationship that i was in and my bf couldnt understand it. He definitely didnt want to be with me I think he was just jealous as we werent spending as much time together and I wasnt there to listen to all his women problems.


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Shawn_H
  May 12, 07, 09:09  #5

Quoting: sapphire
i spent a year travelling with a purely platonic male friend



Sapphire.... I am sure he wanted you as more than a platonic friend.... :-)


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sapphire
Edited by: sapphire  May 12, 07, 09:15  #6

Quoting: Shawn_H
Sapphire.... I am sure he wanted you as more than a platonic friend

why do you say that? we are very close and he has been my best friend for more than 10 years now and he is 10 years younger than me.. we have shared many things together, including a bed, but at no time ever have we even so much as kissed, although he has been tactile with me in a jokey way. Mainly Ive been there to listen to the ups and downs of his love life and offer advice. Sadly I dont see him much anymore as my Polish bf and he hate each other.. I dont really know why, but he seemed to resent me getting into a serious relationship and my bf didnt understand the very close platonic bond that we had.....and no, he is not gay.


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Shawn_H
  May 12, 07, 13:17  #7

Have you ever had a friend of the opposite sex who was really "just a friend'? Not likely. Krisztina Virag writes.


thesoko.com/thesoko/content.html?name=News&file=article&sid=801

interesting reading...


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