Okay, and what about a girl who has had dozens of boyfriends, and dozens of one night stands?
Of course i prefer a girl who only had a few bf's, but a girl who only f#cks guys she's attracted too deserves more respect than a girl who's available for even the ugliest guy.
I'm actually willing to dispute this. There are a lot of men *and* women who talk these kind of ideas into a young girl's mind. No offense to all the girls out there, but girls are sensitive to status and pretty susceptible to what other women do, especially at a younger age. Take modern media for example; All they show you is success, materialism, beauty, power and wealth. They present this as an ideal. Money is made all-important. Girls who don't have much might be persuaded to something they actually wouldn't do if these things didn't seem all-important. So are they sick? Or is society sick? Are they sick? Or the men who pay her for sex? Oh, and keep in mind that eventhough some girls may have been persuaded or seduced into this line of work, they can barely get out due to pressure, threats or social stigmatizing.
I understand that some girls get trapped in the tricks of smooth-talking pimps who offer them a life of fame and fortune, but the very first day they are told to give a bj to a fat old guy or a 3rd world d#ck, they should understand that they have been trapped and should run away immediately, even if this will cost them money. Better than lowering themselves to gutter level.
.or really naive, really poor, really desperate, really unlucky, really forced or really wanting to get somewhere. You don't know all of these girls. I do know one ex-prostitute personally though. She chose to do it for herself at a time when she was young and really needed the money because she wanted to study. It seemed very easy money to her at first, but she regretted it a few years later. She felt dirty, cheap, disrespected and used. She never went to college, but she's happily married now, to someone who actually knows her background, and she has two kids. She's a good woman at heart and has a very warm personality. She really is a pretty girl, and her guy doesn't look that great, but he was one of the few who could look past what she used to do. He's happy with her, and she's happy with him. Sounds like a fairytale, but it happens more often than you'd think. Most girls keep their past a secret. (I think if you carry secrets around for too long it's bad for your health though.)
Anyway, it's easy to judge, and I know everything about that, because I used to be a very black and white person myself. No longer though. There are worse things than a girl who sells herself. Much worse actually.
In 3rd world the situation is more difficult. I know many people in Poland are also struggling to survive, but i think only very, very few Polish girls really have no other option than to sell their bodies.