5 ways how to pick up (cute Polish) guys?

Amen :)

But the other side of the same coin is, if you want to make any girl fall for you, be a donkey instead. Unless you already are one.

Being an a$$ comes very naturally to some people :)

ups.....lol!;)

don't know about her thoughts but I think IT'S SO DAMN STRAIGHT ( :

I am not talking about perfection. I stated the facts that attract boys the most and that's about it. "no offense JJ" You just called me an idiot.... :) offender :P And what you basically said is: a woman who keeps her hair clean & with good smell, that shaves her legs, that does her manicure/pedicure every other day, that dresses with pretty clothes and a few accessories is keeping up with perfection?! Two words for you, ignorance or stupidity (choose one darling).

Business women, do take such things serious, since it is important for most of them to leave a very good impression on their customers or whatever.



Any guy who expects a manicure/pedicure every other day does not live in real world!? Perhaps you're thinking we live in the Pre-historic era. Wake up darling! Most women do work to pay for it, or are probably housewives whose husbands pay their spends. Doing nails only takes about 20 minutes.

And of course we know what we have in the inside is what counts the most. But if you look decent, you have more chances than one of those smelly bums on the subways or whatever. OR would you kiss a bum!? would you take time to get to know a bum!? I'm being realistic, you're not. Boys are boys, their dragons get up when they see a sexy chick passing by lol (i think most of them) And that's the first step, you look decent, attract the person and then get to know each other in the inside. Which could end up really sweet hahah :P

I'm a city girl and I know most of the girls do such things very frequent here. They enjoy doing this and boys like it too! It's sort of a normal thing to do manicure/pedicure, which doesn't necessarily mean you will paint your nails every time you go, you could always keep them natural or natural polish :)


Hahaha I used the word cute because that's what the title of the thread contains. By 'cute' I mean, attractive to the human eye. When you walk by, a guy will sense your presence by your appearance. You do not have to look like a top model or such, just cute :) Oh wyspi has a good looking man lol nice who is the luck one :P Let me see :D

Funny, I was just thinking that you're stupid or ignorant, darling. Nothing wrong with sanitation, but when you're spending so much time getting yourself ready for a man, he'll be out talking to women that use their brains. It doesn't matter how pretty you are, because when you get married and have kids, the husband isn't just going to stare at you and be amazed at how pretty you are.
I think that you're the one living in the Pre-historic era. Pampering yourself so that men find you attractive, isn't exactly modern.



So far, I haven't had any problems attracting real men that aren't bums, and I don't paint my nails every other day. My ex was an engineer and he had no complaints about the way I look :)

There's nothing wrong with wanting to feel pretty/beautiful but there's no reason to overdo it. A lot of the guys that you're hoping to attract will find you nothing more than a brainless trophy. If thats what you want, go for it.

wtf? so you do all that sh!t for a guy? and not for yourself?

yes, you are right....a boy is a boy and he is not a man yet... well, i guess it's this time of your life...

depends on what you like... it's not general...

i'm a city girl too...and i take care of myself... but i do it for myself, it makes ME feel good... every guy who is interested only in looks, i consider as a jerk...

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I like people who entertain me on PF. Thanks Mali. Good Canadian breed:)

Well, I'd say that every guy I have known has never bothered at all about whether I have a manicure/pedicure daily or every second day. The reality is this - nail-polish is infact, unhygienic. I work in a health care environment and I did an audit last year that concluded that people in my job had to wash their hands over 100 times per day. Manicure would be a complete waste then.

Plus, even when I have had a manicure never has a guy said to me "oh darling I just love your nails!". Frankly, I'd be worried if they even noticed.

So I still wouldn't advise you to spend hours and money prefecting your nails because that ain't what a guy notices.

Not painting your nails doesn't make you look terrible. Looking good is more than just nails. I'm totally realistic. Looking decent is a personal pride thing. I dress to look good for me, more than for any guy.

You can look as hot at whatever but if you're dull as ditchwater no relationship will ever last...



Wait until they are men then...

Oh yeah I should add, I'm a city girl too as are my friends...we all look good but it isn't for any man...



Right on girl! :)

"spending so much time" It takes a few seconds to apply the perfume, a few minutes to do your daily hair, 20 minutes for manicure/pedicure(not every day obviously) just wearing nice clothes. Does that means you are spending so much time? You're the ignorant like I said before. And now you're sayign that a woman who takes good care of herself does not have a brain? umm interesting. When you get marry and have children, you should still try to look good for your husband. Getting marry and having children does not necessarily mean you will forget about yourself. In fact, that's when the man will be talking to other women if their wives live life like whatever and don't care about their appearance. If you keep with your ignorance, stop quoting me and keep it to yourself. And you are losing it girl. Read the title of this thread, it doesn't say "how to keep husbands" or whatever. This thread is about "how to pick up" guys. I replied with a few ways on how to attract them and then move on from there, no one is talking about marriage here, but you.





Oh your stupidity, your stupidity :)

Do me a humongous favor and go back to your farm, feed your animals. You obviously have never done a manicure on yourself or get rid of excessive hair on your legs. At least that's what I perceive from you :/


No it's mainly for yourself. I stated it on my first post. That a woman should take care of herself etc. :)


yes, I've been focus on the thread "cute Polish."


I know. But I'm not saying men are interested on looks only. I'm saying what attracts them :P in first place. It's like, they see you before they get to know you. You know what I mean :P AND there are lots of jerks out there hahahah

I do them myself too! My own manicure etc. :) It does feels good hahaha


men like them too lol



lmao :/ that's true. But my friends randomly say to me, "ohh i see you did your nail heheh nice ahaha"(this or that) like playing around and stuff, they seem to like women with nice hands. And it is so true what you said before. Nail Polish is harmful if you constantly use it. I personally do not pain my nails at all. Sometimes I go to the nail salon to do my nail, it is my choice to keep them natural, etc. :) and when I clean the dishes or do other chores, I use gloves. Gloves for everything :P like I should wear regardless the manicure. Ohh I heard about green manicure hahah! Non-toxic. I saw it on Sara Snow show :) neat huh

GUYS! Let's clarify. Physical appearance is not as important as what you have inside, your personality etc. I'm referring to the thread's task "5 ways how to pick up (cute Polish) guys?" Chill, there is no need for arguments we understand each other. *Raises white flag* haha

Perfume - fine in moderation but whenever a person (male or female) wears more than a spritz I find it nauseating. Plus, when I'm being 'intimate' with a guy, the last thing I'd want is him tasting chemicals off my skin.

If you read my post you would know that I said there is nothing wrong with taking care of yourself. Being clean, smelling nice and dressing well is great, but it is not a necessity to attract guys (even the successful ones). No man that has any self confidence will give a rat's a$$ if you have a fresh manicure or not. I used to love mani's when I was a teen but then I read an article about the disgusting things it does to your nails after extended use and now I paint them a few times a year.

A girl can pick up a guy without wearing a cute dress, or any of those things. No offense to the men out there, but its not exactly rocket science.


Btw, if you really want to know, I'm an attractive city girl, from a very well off family. I don't need any makeovers to attract men. Sure, I get lots of attention when I'm dressed up, rather than when I'm wearing jeans and a sweater, but I couldn't care less because I choose the men I date - they don't choose me. Get what I'm sayin'?


You said that she should take care of herself....because it attracts men.


Same here. Apparently JJ thinks that because I believe that spending too much time on looks means I live on a farm with hairy legs! LOL. And I'm the ignorant one. :)


Awww thanks! Do you live in Canada btw?


I completely agree with you. I do not know many straight men that actually notice painted nails lol. I know some that find it atrocious (it reminds them of cheap hookers) but I do not know that many that actually go out of their way to notice it.


hmmmm weird. We have something in common! We both get compliments on having nice hands despite not (usually) wearing nail polish.



You know whats funny? The reason I attacked your post originally was because I thought you were a guy. Your name is pretty unisex on here and I rarely check the gender status which was why I was so pissed about what you wrote. I still don't agree with you on a lot of things, but it makes me feel better knowing that you're not a guy saying that a woman needs to do this and this and this in order to remain attractive.

Lets agree to disagree?

Look at the subject of this thread.
She describes what she does to attract a guy, so in fact she does it for herself.


Not wearing anything would make it even easier.



I'm kinda on the same page. Clean and well put together yes. But if a woman turns into a barbie doll than I tend to stay away wondering which poor bastard will have the misfortune to waste his life waiting for yet another touch of mascara, another gentle lift of a little hair (which will be wrecked by a breeze the moment she leaves the house), another nauseating fragrance that costs in excess of the annual budget of a small African country.

But then, there are guys like that too I guess.

That would attract attention of all kinds! LOL I hope you're not talking about making a public appearance in the nude :)


I find that men like me best when I look and feel natural. I also like my men not to be too pampered either. Like you said, clean and well put together is great.


No guy that I would actually take seriously would care too much about that stuff.

"5 ways how to pick up (cute Polish) guys?"
I gave a few which seem to have the potential to attract guys.

I did not state anything about make up. I think make up could hide the real/natural beauty of a woman. And I do not think it attracts men unless you're wearing clown's makeup hahah

To me, (go back and read again) to me, girls who live in farms don't do manicures. (:

It is true woman should take care of themselves to feel good. How many times do I have to stress it. I'm following what this whole thread is about, and it's about how to pick up guys. And looking decent will help you to pick up guys. I'm not saying what I previously said were the only ways, because of course you can always be you without manicure etc and still be beautiful & attract them. Men wouldn't care if you don't have manicure and that's ok, but having your nails neatly done is a plus :)

I didn't want to go by the fact that women should do it for themselves because it sort of takes me out of orbit/topic.

Of course I'm a girl :/ I'm just informing you what I think and what my experience with boys is telling me. I fully agree with myself (lol) and partially with you.

:) and again, manicures/pedicures is sort of an habit around here. Many girls like to wear long fake nails lol gezz I would never wear such things! I don't find it attractive at all.

Everybody should go drink some coconut juice now! Cheers<33 Dobranoc !

oh...really? is it the first time the topic goes off the topic....?
i was referring to jj.... and that's the topic when you think about that...

wow. the "blonde" is back. rofl

nice and dandy, but you were criticizing someone for answering the main question here, whether the topic now stays the same or not.

so i was criticizing something she posted as an answer to the main topic... so?

so I pointed that out and so now it appears this is the topic.
Do you have a problem with that?

google.

rofl.

i do not....i couldn't care less...

of course not :)

I live in farm, don't do manicure and my boy doesn't mind :D

So hard to find cute girls who live on farm. Where I live all the farm girls weigh more than me and some don't have all their teeth. So I remain single. MAy be you have a sister or a friend or an ex friend or someone you met at a farm ten years ago anyone would be better than what is arround here ! Yet, my place is so nice moving is not an option.

Bleedin egg chaser........ lol

Thats because you haven't been to a Polish farm. I have some cousins that live on farms in Poland and I've been there to visit and some of the women are simply beautiful. Its almost impossible for a young able-bodied female to get fat working on a farm because the job is so physically demanding. Another bonus: they usually have teeth too :)


Completely agree with you here. Looking like a birthday cake will attract no one lol.


LOL. I'd be worried if you didn't agree with yourself! See, when you worded it like that, I actually agreed with almost everything you said: that a girl needs to take care of herself and feel good about herself. If she wants to attract a (cute Polish) male, she's better off when she takes care of herself. However, even if she doesn't want to attract a (cute Polish) male, she should still take care of herself :)


Manis/pedis are also a 'habit' in Toronto lol. You'll find one of these salons at almost every intersection. Personally, if I were to actually get it done, I'd rather do it myself. I'll buy a good quality nail polish (such as OPI) and do it myself, because sometimes even the 'classiest' joints skimp on cleaning properly because it saves them time and money.
As for fake nails....they creep me out. Have you ever been beside a woman with fake nails and she had to scratch her arm or something? I could almost hear her skin breaking from those claws.

yep, you sound like women and gender or equity studies woman:)

I simply must visit this country soon. What a difference in work ethic there must be there.

I'm a Polis Sci/English Lit double major. Although some gender studies classes have been known to happen :)
Are you in school too?


The only problem is that many young people want to move to the city instead of working on a farm, simply because it is such hard work.