We are not ready to get married; how can we be together?

Hi guys...I'm an US citizen and my GF is polish citizen. Now she lives in Poland...and I am in USA. What can I do to be with her or to get her to come be with me? If we keep our relationship we can only see each other once in a while from a vacation. It sucks. And she can only come see me IF she gets a visa. What if she doesnt? Has anyone been in this situation? I need some advice....we are not ready to get married. How can we be together...?? it' just bc i'm in USA and it's like i'm in some kind of lock down noone can come see me. Because it's so hard to get USA visa...

I was/am in the same situation. My gf was just given a 10 yr tourist visa. It's difficult to get though. She has to have strong ties to Poland. It would be recommended that she's a student or owns property. If she does get the tourist visa then she can't work and will eventually have to get sponsored. Until then, plan on plenty of vacations. It's tough and it takes a certain type of person to stick with it. You 2 really need to be in a good understanding/trust with each other because it's not going to be easy.