ok Paul, hope your Christmas is much better, as for bashing the poles, they are
not stupid, they are hard workers, your bitter, so I dont take anything you post
literally, anyway, do what you need to do.
Welsh, your being more of a dad then a target seeker. not a bad thing, but he has
a bad insight on life now since she is still trying to contact him, I dont think she
understands you, or you do her.
Friends can be there, and they can also be to overbearing, I listen to myself, I
dont take advice from my Friends (when I was in a relationship) in my 20s.
they dont know
what you do, what she does. they assume, so when you listen, it becomes worse
then it really is, how would they know her, or anything else, unless you have a
24 hour spy watching.
next time, tell your friends they are there to listen, if they truely are your friend,
and not tell you how to live your relationships. that is a true friend. offering
their ears . as for you and her, well, let me point out, that there are many on
here who know me, but we are all from different places, and communication
and just posting on here, people can get wrong impressions just because they
dont understand where your coming from, humor, serious topics etc, so yes
if you both are from different countries, it takes time to know someone and
know how to communicate without feeling frustrated.
so, I think you calling her stupid was your own selfish anger.
MY motto, It is better to say you have loved then to never have loved at all!
now buckle up and fly strait.

Oh Yeah, Merry Christmas. I have to get back to my Cooking!