Quoting: Amathyst, Post #89
Mrs P you can be too nice at times, for me he was an attention seeking little pr*ck who thinks that because his x treated him badly, all Polish are the same and this is just simply not true, you know my feelings on people airing their dirty washing in public....its just simply not cricket! - english expression - meaning - its just not the done thing.....somethings should be kept between you and the other person...and not plastered all over the web...there are however two sides, she's probably just got on with things...
A He admitted it, and said he took it back, I plastered his dirty wash on the net
he was saying some really stupid stuff, but all out of anger, he is only 20 years old
probably was his first real love, we dont know his whole story, or hers, Im not
picking sides, was just trying to get him back to his real self, anger can make
you say things you dont mean. hes beginning life, and yes there can be Women
who do treat you good at first then start changing, but still expect to be handed
freebies, and then when the freebies stop, they start actually calling and saying
whats up?? <~that is an example, not saying that is what she did, but it happens
and it happens alot in all cultures. just like men can do this to woman. its not
a culture thing actually, but he did pick out the facts that she was polish, so he
did say (generalizing) some really stupid crap, I wont deny he didnt, but
what kind of people are we if we all jump down his throat and not let him heal.
yes he told on the other forum, then I brought it here because I figured it was
anger, and it is. he identified with Arien on some of the things he posted. so
maybe things will change for him, he can get some type of insight on how to deal
with what he is feeling, I know at age 20 I would continue on with things because
I didnt understand them, why did he do this, what made him do that?
then get angry and (generalize) ok, so all men are scum, but I said it out of anger
and People do this.
can anyone say with truth that you never have generalized about a woman
saying " I hate women all they do is take your money and run?" or dont get
married all women are money hungry?
or for women, we say, men only want one thing?
if anyone never has said this, wow, you are one of a kind, because I hear it in
alot of conversation, and when it happens to us, we say it.
I probably am to nice, I have been told this, but I do watch my own back, and
try to watch others as i go along, its a time healing thing. he will find someone
else who he really likes, and or she will adore him, they will click, and end of
story.
sorry if no one agrees with this, ya know, hes probably alone ( no girl) and every
one deep down wishes to have someone special in their lives at this time of year
I just think and try to be fair , and I could tell from posts it was anger, he didnt
just come in and start posting bad things, so , from that observation I could tell.
and No I am not Dr Phils sidekick, but, I try to see the good in people as well.
NO Stones Please, I have worked to much overtime this week and cant
throw any back
lol.
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