Women.... please explain this logic

ok.... for sooooo many years i have wondered this, and this morning, my gf ignited the flame of curiosity.

>> women/gf's/wives, you go to sleep with us men/bf's/husbands all the time and most of the time you are naked with us in bed. We have access to your breasts. When we have sex, we have access to your breasts, sometimes we can grab a handful when fully dressed.

BUT...... when getting dressed in the morning.... why do youhave to show us your backside and tell us not to look, when putting on your bra?

My gf did that this morning. I was lying in bed and she was getting dressed. I was watching her and she looked at me, said my name, gave me a dirty look like I was peeping and told me stop looking. I asked her the logic behind it, and she said nothing. Now she has a fantastic body, and I compliment her on it but not all the time, so it doesn't go to her head.

I do not understand this logic.

thanks.

who said romance was dead

you sound like we are there for your pleasure only.

i think i would get fed up too.

we do like our own space now and again >:-(

lol.. you are trying to understand women? hahahahaha good luck on that one buddy. lmao :D :D :D

you men are just as hard to understand :-P

I second that opinion

shooooooot, what are you talking about? lol

you're not? that's a real shocker... cuts deep, real deep... lol

/\ oh ya.... what was i thinking.. :S

xxLisaxx > you don't get it. how is seeing my gf 2-3 times a week not having enough space?? there is more to my gf than her breasts. BUT when we are sleeping together, or being intimate, what's wrong with holding them??

you have to buy the cow. :)

please keep on topic. NO THREADJACKING PLEASE!!

so you women would get fed up when sleeping with your partner, and they want to hold a breast in a hand or even look at you when getting dressed when you only see them (partner) 2-3 times in 7 days??

you don't get it then.. that's actually very on topic dude. wait and you'll see that i am right.

ah but the way you put it, it sounds as though all you ever do is have your eyes and hands fixed to her boobs. If you are only seeing her 2-3 times a week maybe she feels uncomfortable with this sort of attention maybe you are a bit too full on with it.
Step back and think of how you would feel if she always had her hands and eyes on you dick.
oh and when shes clothed don't go for her boobs all the time, hug her, kiss her neck it's a much nicer greeting lol. my ex would come up behind me and grab my boobs (what a turn off) we want loving not man handling.

i'm not a boob freak. i don't have an obsession with them. you really should find out how i feel about them before making an assumption like u did.

i merely wanted to know what u think at that moment.

btw....we just slept last night, no playtime., so i didn't have fun with them

and that's what you got

sorry nauczyciel but i lived with a man who was fixated with my boobs and it is a subject close to my chest (excuse the pun).

but it just the way you put it, it reminded me of my ex (shudders)

i didn't mean to have a go at you i just hate women being treated as something for mens pleasure, we are human.

sorry again if i hurt your feelings.

I'd say putting on a bra can feel awkward, it's not really a very 'natural' part of your clothing, your gf might just feel she isn't looking her best at that particular moment of getting dressed. Plus getting dressed overall is a more intimate and personal thing than undressing. Funny, but true.

Thats kinda how you are coming across, maybe the drool is putting her off !

explain how i sounded like a boob freak. i never said ath about how i oogled her boobs, cuz i don't or any womans boobs.

what drool??

I know the exact situation Nauc, but its best to try not explain it! I think its one of those "morning things" ;-)

ha, so funny. All girls act like that?

Nope! But us guys get giddy because we then think its something said or done :D

This was what I was thinking

personally i have no problem with my partner checking them out at any time of day or night

I suppose it depends on the situation, if your having sex, then why not touch breasts etc, its supposed to be a time of passion exploration and all that.

However when your getting dressed, your getting dressed, i guess if your getting ready for an important business meeting your not interested in having your boyfriend or partner looking at your rack. You just want to get to your meeting and not get their late with hair out of place :)

I dont know what all the fuss is about, why would you be so worried that you cant see her naked/getting dressed in the morning when you can see her naked in bed every night, is that not enough

exactly and their is also the danger you will get bored if you see it all the time, i mean you know if you read the same book over and over again you don't read it after that :)

Unless its a REALLY goodbook ;-)

if its really good then i just read the best bits, lol

Guys like to look at us, and its great... But magic is gone in the morning... Even tho we say 'stop looking', we know you do that and thats great when your man cant stop....looking...:)