I work in a bank and employed a Polish girl - help required please

'Thanks Jukrek...but I love my job too and this is a problem. I don't want a different job. He says that he is ready to tell everybody and they wont be nasty to me. They will accept it, but I am still worry. They would probably think that I am a slat as I am going out with the boss. If something would go wrong I will loose the job or I would need to quit.

never date the boss.. its as simple as that. If you do, you will have to face the very real possibility of being disliked by your colleagues and out of work or in a very difficult situation if and when the relationship fails. Also, you should check your company's policies on this as you could both potentially end up getting sacked. Not worth the effort. If you really like each other, then I would look for another job, before you start dating.

Sapphire - this is a good advice, but we already had 3 dates and I think it is too late. I already did the move which wasn't probably very smart of me. I feel like I don't have a right way to go. Doesn't matter what I decide to do I will be in trouble. However he is one of the owners of the company and he says that the others wouldn't mind if we would be together (but who knows...), and he wants to tell them, also he wants to introduce me to his family. The company is very small so I have no idea what people would say. I just can't belive it that when I finally found the perfect job, I also fall in love with the boss and he with me...

well maybe you should get it in writing from him that if you are to have a relationship and it doesnt work out that he wont sack you.. however, it will undoubtedly become too difficult for you to stay if he owns the company. Although it it does work out you could become his partner in both business and pleasure, so could be great. I would try to think about the longer term of what you want in terms of both your career and your love life.. say in a few years time, and not just the here and now.