Do you think your love is true?

Are you in love with someone. Is it true?... will is be successful?... because true love is always successful ... as the sun always manages to rise at dawn, and no one can stop it.... its same in true love, if it is true - no one can stop it from success...

Ofourse... you might think different... but then... you might have your own reasons for it....would like to hear from you .

I don't know if I agree with that. I guess it depends on how you define it being a success. I think 2 people can love each other deeply and for one reason or another not be together. If they are not together it doesn't necessarily mean their love isn't true.

True love is when one cares about someone else's well being as much as one cares about one's own. Making someone else happy is certainly important, and yet one's own happiness in addition to that and as a result of that is what genuinely is true. True love stands together in equality and balance to what is honest, true and caring and not only about romantic love. It is a kindness of heart, soul, and mind. True love can be definite and is also a given, known and reciprocated when two people "share" in it.

To LOVE means to act with the highest good of the other person in mind.

That was a beautiful definition, Pingwin. I 100% agree with everything you said.

Thanks. I found my true love once, but lost him forever in a car accident.

Very sorry to hear that. :(

As for the question. It assumes a lot mate.
Yep, i've been in love once, but never again. Far too much pain involved. They never mentioned any of that when I signed on the dotted line.

love always fades with time and the man and women stay with each other because they accustomed to each other

I tragically lost someone I love, also. Sorry for your loss.


Yeah but the deeper the pain you feel, the greater the joy you experience. I've been hurt, burned, left out to dry, but I will never give up on love.....to me, all the pain I've been through in life is just leading me to an even greater joy! Call me an optimist!

Hmmm......I could be in love........we'll never know, will we??

Sorry to hear that! Why not try again? Not letting love in is being selfish. Letting go of the pain is to grow and live for the future. It is to fear less and love more.

Pain is just weakness leaving the body


Thats what gramps said anyway

I don't know if I agree with that. I know when true love really exist between a married couple, they give and take. They forgive and forget. They walk along side by side in life till death. I know some great couples who have been married for at least 50 years and are still in love with each other. There are stages of love and you must work at it to keep it. It takes two to tango. It's when one stops thinking of the other then the love fades.

Gramps was a wise man!

Yup. Loved the guy. You would have loved him. He was great guy to drink with

I’ve said this many times and I’ll say it again, first love is always true love, regardless the outcome of it. The rest is just a ways of life. Sure love can happen many times. But that’s just a different version of love (not true love) Love is all about making compromise and sacrificing things for each other.

I have to agree with huegel_gast. Too much pain is involved. So can’t fall in love again.

LIFE IS PAIN.

Pain, sufferance that is what its all about. People see pain as negative but often pain is the path to enlightenment.

I actually quite enjoy pain.

i actually like to give pain then to enjoy. ( only to those who laugh at my pain)

The other week we had a serious kick off at the club and the next day I ache all over, with a few bruises etc but no cuts. Anyway as I was feeling my pain, I couldn't help but smile and feel good in the knowledge that if I was hurting the three muppets we BATTERED would be feeling ten times worse. Violence is like rough sex, you just gotta love it.

I think that my love is deff TRUE LOVE

im banned from some of the clubs in dubai. cos of fights, been scared and stuff, but they all sure know that they were in a fight. bunch of Pus*y fuk

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Sorry Razz I dont agree with this.. maybe you are too young to have had more than one true love? I agree that the first cut can often be the deepest, but not that you cant feel that way (or even more) for someone else at a later stage in your life. I have been deeply in love several times, each one was different, but its your own attitude that changes with time.


Giles, Im liking your comments

You still dating that creepy guy?

I figured you for an S & M kinda guy.

He could be creepy, but not necessarily, I can tell you I know a guy who dated the sister of my best friend and he was 28 at the time she was 16. this happened in 1998.

We all thought it was weird back then, and her father even had a fight with the guy,
but they're still together and happily married now. It's highly unusual to say the least, just saying I agree with you on a personal level, because I know I wouldn't chase such a young puppy myself either.. It's just not really fair.

But it's easy to say things like that about someone you don't really know, he doesn't necessarily have to be creepy.

Anyway, I still think she's pretty full of it though. Just teasing you dear.

As for the whole true love subject, let me just say that if you truly love, your love will always be true?

I disagree with Razz and Heugel though, your first love doesn't have to be true, because it has to be a mutual feeling for real.. I won't speak for you guys, but I think that most of the time people's first relationships are more like a natural experiment.

In some cases people stay married to their highschool sweethearts, but it's not really a standard is it?

We have a saying in Holland; Love between young people is a natural thing, between adults it becomes an artform.

I think there's some truth to that. Never say never. And I know I've said the same for a very long time.

im so sorry to hear that pingwin.your loss is truely a great one.
no one know's the heartache,that lies behind our smiles.

Alright Ranj!!!!! Keep Spirit!! Now it is me who is proud of you!!!

No one should ever give up on love.

Life is way too short for that nonsense, sista P!

agree with this, and I had mentioned before that big fluffy chair, you could share it
with someone new ya know

AMEN Sista R